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Oh, I see? Are you saying it’s unfair to assign thoughts and motivations when there is no way I could see what’s in your head?
What a coincidence, you and I agree after all.
This is girl app for “I’m not interested cos I’m weighing up better options”
This is way too much, way too fast. Sounds like classic love-bombing to me. There is no way that you know each other well enough after 5 months for marriage. Your instincts to be surprised and needing to slow this down are spot-on. You might want to reconsider moving in if he is going to keep pushing like this for too much, too soon.
Because you had to make it worse w ur behavior
In my opinion this is something so minor it’s not worth a second thought from either person.
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Yep same thing happened with my ex. His coparenting idea was for me to ask him repeatedly to come see his son, left him waiting and crying for hours because “why is dad not coming” and on the rare occasion he decided to grace us with his presence, he took my son to his mother's house and returned him in 2-3 hours so I couldn't even go anywhere to enjoy my time off from having my son. After this happened several times, I just stopped trying. My son hasn't seen him in a ton of years and he doesn't care anymore. But, I made sure to get that child support (which I tried to do amicably at first but he just told me i should be asking other men to give me money for my son, because if they fucked me they could support my son…which at that time I was with 1 guy whereas he was with a different woman every day, but that's another irrelevant story). 15+ years later, still complains whenever he takes me to lower the child support and they end up raising it. Not my fault, I asked for a minimal amount voluntarily at first, he decided to make it difficult.
People lie for odd reasons. Some people lie because they are trying to avoid negative reactions even if those are not realistic. Often people tell “little lies” as a protective measure. When someone asks, “does this dress make me look fat?” people lie and say no because they imagine there’s going to be consequences.
Ask yourself WHY might he have lied. Was he afraid of your reaction perhaps? Perhaps he forgot to add detergent and he lied to avoid 1) having to redo the laundry 2) to avoid upsetting you or 3) not to look stupid or lazy.
Did he lie without thinking because he thought there’d be consequences not realizing that there’s more consequences when he lies?
Some people fall into the habit of lying because they grew up where telling the truth had great repercussions.
Why the hell did you tell your friend? You need to cut the relationship off 100%. Crushes will happen but you need to know that nothing comes of it, or you're at minimum emotionally cheating.
YTA. Please grow up and take responsibility for your own mistakes. Don't ask strangers for tips on how to lock your wife into another rental agreement with you.
You won't know until the future how this decision will impact your daughter. However, generational living has many perks. Lower costs for everyone and you have family right there. Your parents can potentially babysit on the nights you go to school or want a night alone with your bf. Your daughter gets to create a solid bond with her grandparents. And don't forget all the extra money you'd have with them vs living alone, which you can save, invest, and put towards your daughter.
But, independence might do you some good too. You'll know what it means to struggle, have to deal with things on your own, find babysitters for school and dates, and strengthen your resolve.
Both have pros and cons. You have to choose what you think is best for you and your daughter.
He sounds absolutely disgusting and incapable providing any sort of emotional support required of a real relationship. Please break up with him!