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Something is really off about your relationship.
I think maybe you're too dependent on him and secretly he resents it? Or maybe you're overweight and he's not physically attracted to you and doesn't have the heart to tell you outright?
But yeah regardless I think what he said is pretty much a deal breaker. I'm sorry.
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Thanks for the advice.
Would leave it, but I work from home a lot and she does not. We also only have 1 toilet so if I need to go it's either fix it, or over the balcony.
Are you the same person you were in 2014? Prior to your ex-friend's visit, had your feelings towards your husband changed since 2014?
Is it possible that his feelings towards you have changed?
He was infatuated with her. (Sometimes we are in love with people because they represent the pain of our childhood, that we hope to heal in our new relationship. So if our father was a rejecting, we might fall in love with someone who is rejecting… etc).
But while your husband was infatuated with her, you are the love of his life. This is why he feels such despair. He finds you beautiful, and wonderful.
You've been withdrawn for a year. It's time to decide what's next. You deserve happiness. If this means separation, I think you might consider it. If it means forgiveness then I hope you start to look at ways to heal.
I don't know how long your husband will stick around, but my guess is that it won't be another year. Especially if he is in despair. If you don't want to lose him, I suggest you do shop around a lot and find a very good family therapist. I feel like you need someone to help you navigate this. You may need PTSD therapy. You have suffered a great trauma.
You did nothing to deserve this, and it's clear that your husband finds you gorgeous, you don't get three kids from a guy who doesn't adore you. But you are allergic to him. It may be just over.
Please don't compare yourself to ex-friend. In your husband's eyes, I guarantee he finds you so much more compelling. But I hope he tells you this on a daily basis, and you tell him that you will touch him when you are ready.
I don't think OP and her sister are doing her mom any favors. Mom is not going to deal with loneliness, depression etc as long as she can you her daughters as crutches.
I think it might be a good time for OP to start deciding where she wants to travel. Sister can do the same, or stay in co-dependent relationship with mom.
I think the only caveat, is give your mom a bit of time to adjust and go back out there in the world.
OP you need to launch!
You bring up the communication issue by itself. You express you can’t be happy or move forward if “we” can’t figure out how to do it together.
Express it’s okay for her to shut down/get upset when it happens(that’s human), and you need to not touch it so you don’t damage each other until emotions calm.
Say you need for y’all both to be able to talk about it later w/o emotions(or only about how you felt vs blaming what they did if it’s personal). Letting problems build is how you end up with trouble in a lot of areas of life and get resentful toward your partner. You also have to say you need and want her honesty because you think it’s important she have a say on how you figure these things out.
At the end of the day, this relationship dies if y’all can’t do that.
End it if you realize it’s not possible because w/o a real partner here it’s naked to be happy long term running the bus solo.
You need to online your life. If your grandma was all there mentally she would want you to live your life as well. She wouldn’t want her to hold you back. She is 94, she has probably lived a good life. At that age, there isn’t much she can do physically so you shouldn’t feel guilty about her sitting most of the time.
The lights yes. But there are no flammable chemicals involved. Don't add to conversation if you are only guessing.
Go see your family.
Tell them your couple is doomed and you are afraid fir your security if you tried to break.
Shame is the part that keeps you from kicking him out. It us a psychological racket. You should feel anger. Connect to it.
Obviously “shit head”