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Date: October 6, 2022
Ele^^, 19 y.o.
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Yes, it is incredibly sad that OP's partner is not there to support her emotionally when she needs it and keeps dumping all his emotions on her, when she also needs support.
Instead, OP can't even be driven to the hospital because the man is crying. Again.
That was my first thought ? He really should have done a paternity test, not unless the one he is sure is his is his clone.
What are your plans if it's your child?
Alright, well that is incredibly noble of you wanting to prepare for the chance that it is your own.
If your mother is aware of these facts, sounds like she is smoking crack.
Even if this child isn't yours, I don't think you would view this as wasted money. You did it out of the kindness of your own heart.
Besides that, you're preparing for your child if this is yours, your mom would be bat shit crazy for looking down on you for that.
Your wife's a covert narcissist. Read up on that. How dare you EVER criticize her, for ANYTHING? Because if you do, she'll try to play the victim card “I'm so worthless,” “nobody could love me” etc. until she extorts an apology out of you.
This personality type doesn't change. Either let her beat you down, or move out.
I mean read other opinions, I could be wrong, but that's what I'm hearing in your description.
You're probably gonna end up on “who the bleep did I marry?” Worst case scenario he has another life he's hiding from you and a whole different identity. I saw one guy had 3 fake identities and 2 wives and 1 gf and kids with multiple women. If he refuses to give you some straight answers, then you probably should hire a PI.
There are other relationship structures than monogamy. You could have an open marriage, and negotiate how that would work (DADT? rules on birth control/condoms, etc).
Open, monogam-ish, polyamory…. these can work if you two communicate and if you two are both secure and mature, and a host of other things.
I suggest you check out some other subs (like r/polyamory ) and look up the sex advice column by Dan Savage, Savage.Love (i think) he's based at the Seattle alternative paper The Stranger. He's been advice folks on these kind of subjects for a couple of decades now.
Of course, you can also suggest therapy, and you can also sit down and have a serious, “This is fast approaching deal-breaking levels. Unless this changes, I'm going to do X”. I meqn, he's cheated on you, so apparently he isn't THAT stressed since he has the time and energy to put his penis in other people.
Good luck OP. I hope you two can work it out.
Bro she cheated on you basically right after marriage and she didn't cut him off obviously, he messaged her on her birthday 3 years later. That's nothing you randomly do if you didn't have contact for that long time.
My mother and her don't look alike too much but yes, I guess he has a type. If he'd find a woman my mothers age, I wouldn't have a problem with that..
Sorry man… I don't have much to say besides let her go in peace.
I know break ups are insanely hard, especially with someone who you thought was going to be your forever.
You don't know it yet, but you two breaking up… will be the best thing that's happened to you and your future.
Toxic engagements at the age 20… Will end in divorce.
Take time for yourself, reconnect with you. Go see your friends. Go be independent again. Become the source of your own happiness and you'll learn that you don't need a relationship to be happy. They're a cherry on top for your life.
Sorry about your situation. Give it sometime to blow over and you'll get through it.
Yes you’re in the wrong. Your gf isn’t responsible for maintaining your separation anxiety, that’s on you. And she’s your partner not your property. Taking one photo with a random friend at your graduation is normal. This post should be in AITA and the answer is yes.
There is a huge sub that is like 80% of this story, /r/deadbedrooms/