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You basically just gave every reason why you’re not a good couple. Only reason you’re together is “you care about him” promise you can learn it for another
Yeah you're being really dense here… I'd never do reverse cowgirl again if my boyfriend said that to me. Women in general have insecurities about how attractive we are/good in bed we are etc.. Telling her something so bluntly is really lacking in empathy.
You still seem to not understand so I'm not really sure how to explain it to you. Short answer is yes you said something really stupid and are invalidating her being upset by it. Now you're making it even worse by saying she's not communicating but she DID communicate how upset she was and then you invalidated her…. So you owe her a real apology.
You really don't need to reiterate anything about that position again because I doubt she'll ever be comfortable enough with you to do it again. You are supposed to have a safety net to not feel judged when you're intimate with someone and you essentially broke that trust.
Why would it be?
I read the title and age and know enough already.
There is no such going as “good” animosity. I think you mean “with no animosity”.
Unfortunately, the answer to this is beyond Reddit simply because we don't know the guy so none of us have a hope of being able to give advice on what he would accept with good grace. It might be that there is nothing you can say to end this relationship that he won't resent and you'll have to accept that possibility. He just doesn't sound like that nice a guy.
Standard practice to part on good terms with a guy like this is to put as little of the blame on him as possible. That does nothing to help him grow as a person or to treat future girlfriends better of course. But he may well not tolerate any blows to his ego, so if you want no rancour then massaging his ego and putting all the blame on yourself is the way.
So you could say that you have been reflecting and realised that you don't feel the same as you used to. You have grown apart from him, and while he is growing in one direction, you feel like you haven't been growing at all. Tell him that ultimately, you've realised you don't love him how he deserves to be loved and it's made you realise that you aren't right for him nor him for you.
You could tell him about the codependency thing and use that too, but be careful; guy like this may well use that to “teach you a lesson” and make separating finances, housing etc as difficult as possible. But he might do that anyway.
It's pretty sickening to end the relationship without telling him any of the things he has done to contribute to that, but this is what you asked for
Most importantly, stand firm. He may try to persuade, to minimise or to dismiss. You have made your decision. No matter how he tries to minimise issues, you have made the decision and you cannot allow him to row you back on it. Using the love excuse will help.
Also, tell someone you trust that you are doing this and when you are doing it. Have them expect you to phone them when it's done, just for safety and for them to check that you haven't been manipulated into reversing course.
Good luck and enjoy the next chapter in your life
This std is curable. Do not talk about people with stds like that. You can get stds from sleeping with a guy for the first time in your life, or even from long term boyfriend, or husband. You need to stop the hatred for people with stds, it’s uncalled for. You don’t know how many people this girl has slept with, you cannot judge them.
Yes, she is at best moving around piles of shit. There is no cleaning a hoarder house.
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You’ve lost her already. The minute she cheated she was gone and now she’ll continue taking advantage of you. It’s over as tough as that is to hear
Whether he plans to cheat on you doesn't matter. However it feels like already is emotionally cheating with coworker. Him hiding things from was no different from lying to you. Him dying on this hill means he is already heavily emotionally invested in his coworker. This, in my eyes, confirms his emotional cheating. I think if you don't want to be cheated more in your life than you already have leaving him is the only option. At this point even if he relents it changes nothing. He will just lie or hide it from you.
Honestly the only way you could reasonably trust him again is of he came clean about his actions and made sure he has no more contact with this coworker (meaning they need to dtop being coworkers, one way or another.).
Actually, it was the opposite of that…
As a therapist I’ve worked with many who have this diagnosis. It’s a long road. If she is not intrinsically motivated to heal so that she can experience the joy and pleasure of sex there is a low probability of success. If she is communicating “this is all just for you,” that is problematic as she is insinuating the only motivation is to satisfy you (and unfairly perceiving you as an antagonist).
Try and take the focus off the sexual aspect of her vaginismus, and direct the concern on the broader concern that is her healing from the trauma that is the catalyst to her vaginismus.
Of course I would support her. I only want her to feel loved and fulfilled
As a woman who was once 30, and single at times, I definitely do not agree with that, nor will most other 30 something year olds.
Yea sure I would understand if she knew anything about the show, but she doesn't. They decided they disliked it before knowing anything about it.
It’s juvenile though, if you want to leave go ahead but as a writer in my spare time I would not remotely be upset if someone can’t comprehend difference between fiction and reality
A grown up that has raised a child and worked in group homes and women's shelters. So ✌️.
I think OP is more upset with dad for making him struggle to get where he is, but then went and had a secret life with OP’s half sister where she is getting freebees where he had to make due.
Mad respect. I can’t even walk in heels anymore. Enjoy your new life!
You need to leave. I’m close to your age. You don’t need a child to take care of and that’s exactly what you have. Remember being happy and independent? Go back to that.
As someone else said, you should go in separate cars. Arrive “Happy birthday Sam. Would you like me here?”.
Problem solved. If he says yes, stay, enjoy the night, don't talk to him directly so you both can have a decent night.
If he says no, tell your wife you will see her later. Or she can argue with her father.
Good luck man.
Looks like she not ready for steady relationship, that’s all. Hindsight you dodged a bullet, imagine if this happened if you were exclusive! If you have to be around her due to your friend circle just be stoic around her cordial at best, but don’t be too down about it. You guys are young and still gonna be out there partying it up, pretty sure guys gonna be doing that left and right; just look elsewhere, you be alright! ✌?
Probably because you didn't shut it down immediately. You left room for what could have happened which made her insecure about it.
That's stats for all types of child abuse. Now trying getting the stats for child sexual abuse.
yeah, sounds like a perfectly fine standard to me. none of those examples are unnecessary plastic surgery
OMFG! i love the idea!! just saying I'm sorry & tryin to make it right ain't gonna make it up – TELL HIM TO TELL HER HUSBAND AS PROOF to you that he is sorry & wants to repent. & AP needs to get her ass whopped too for destroying OP relationship.
Both AP & OP bf are just plain cheaters, losers, liars !! FFS just leave him as after all as he is unworthy of you.
This Means alot ❤️
You’re never going to know if they hooked up before or after so you should get tested anyway. They were probably talking or seeing each other platonically before he broke up though because that is really fast work otherwise.
Keep the gifts. He gave them to you so they are yours.
Yeah, still
I would love to buy a home, unfortunately it's not feasible :(. Thank you for your advice though, it would be a great idea to see a couples therapist.
And a murderer!
understand being physically affectionate will cause a man to get aroused.
well it can do but not always and even if it does it's not an enititlement. You're a whisper away from calling OP a prick tease
She stopped evolving and will hold you back in life until you leave. Sometimes they make an effort to change if they see that you are actually willing to leave but you will never know until you try. For me this started with sleeping on the couch no matter how persuasive they are I would say “ I just can’t share a bed with someone who cares that little about my well being.” Then it would be sleeping at a girl friends house.
And what about that screams she's be open to BDSM? It might remind her too much of her past abuse.