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Date: October 6, 2022
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It would not surprise me at all if your GF has a history of expecting the people around her to pull extra weight when she is having a depressive episode, but this is the first time she has had to face a situation where the stakes have been this high and success or failure is contingent on her actually managing her avoidant behaviour.
Wrote a card, apologizing for your behavior and ask what you can do to make it up to them. Reply to that text group, apologizing to everyone else.
I mean this in the kindest way possible. She is 31. This is who she is. Your life the way it is, is how its always going to be while you devote yourself to her. Love isn't some magical game changing thing, true love is about respect and being able to handles one shit while lifting your partner, yes you can deal with a depressive episode here and there, but if that episode the entire relationship well I hate to say it, but there is no helping it.
OP, don't think that just because you've got some issues of your own the only person you could get into a relationship with is someone with an even worse condition. There's a reason people with BPD can't keep relationships together and you're seeing that now. She's been trying to dominate your life because she can't see beyond the end of her own nose. She doesn't care if you lose all your friends or flunk your classes. Her needs are all that matter to her. You likely can't see it right now but you've dodged a huge bullet here. Hopefully with time and a lot of behavioral cognitive therapy she'll be able to some day live something resembling a healthy life. But you need to go excel on your path. Try to shake this off and get back to being allowed to care about your own priorities.
Call your local women’s shelter & ask them for help on how to leave your relationship. They will help you prepare to do it without alerting your husband.
Look at OP's profile. Overall Karma is 181 but this post alone has 375. Somehow 200 karma was lost but it's not shown in the post history. This suggest troll to me.