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you say that otherwise your boyfriend is sweet and kindhearted. im wondering, how does he feel about you doing all of this? is he content and even often pushes more work on you, or does he seem embarrassed? when you say you have to get specific, how so? is he frequently forgetful? if he seems like he wants to be more independent and responsible but doesnt feel capable of it, i would recommend looking into whether he might have adhd or a similar neurodivergency. this isnt to excuse his behaviour, but just to say if theres a psychological reason underlying it then that is something you can both adjust to and accommodate so that there is a more equal share of the work being done between you. if he seems like he just hates doing work but hes otherwise a good guy, perhaps couples counselling is in order
Try not to ‘hate’ anything, in words or deeds. Especially a possibly hypothetical human from an app on your phone ???✨
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Came here to basically say this exact thing, but the OC said it better!
Also to add, one thing that can be really frustrating is when you’re upset but you don’t know what you want that will help you feel better. This used to happen to me a lot with my husband; I’d be upset about something (usually nothing to do with him) and I couldn’t figure out if I wanted him to cuddle me, or be nowhere near me, or just sit beside me, or talk to me or be silent. It was like whatever he did would be the wrong choice; if he tried to talk it out I’d be annoyed that he couldn’t just hold me, if he cuddled me in silence I’d be upset that he had nothing to say about it. So I’d often just shut down in exactly the way your girlfriend is (though I didn’t withdraw quite so much). I wasn’t trying to punish or trick anyone – I just didn’t even know what I wanted, let alone how to ask for it. It felt like I had to plan out how my partner should help me feel better whilst also feeling awful, whilst also running the risk that he might reject me if I asked for “too much” – and it was just simpler to withdraw.
This is very common for people who are not used to having their emotional needs met by others in times of distress; if we’re not regularly comforted by others when we’re younger, we don’t learn how to receive care from other people when we’re upset, nor do we learn what’s helpful to us when we’re feeling bad. I didn’t learn how to work out what I needed in these moments until my late 20s, and that was after a lot of therapy. I had to work at it proactively, ahead of time, to figure out what soothed me. It might be something really simple, like being wrapped in a nice blanket and brought a cup of tea. I also learned that not all types of touch are equally comforting – for instance, many people find a light touch or gentle cuddle really irritating when they’re upset, but a long deep hug is really soothing (this is very true for me). So you can ask your girlfriend, in a calm moment, to think about what would help her next time she’s feeling upset – and remind her that she can ask for different things. She might want space for half an hour but then want cuddles, she might want to talk about it but then suddenly be done. And that’s all ok, she just has to actually express that to you clearly and not hope that you’ll figure out what she can’t, which is how to help her feel better.
Now if she rejects this idea and says “you should just know” or something like that, I think you’ve gotta bounce. No healthy relationship exists where one person takes no responsibility for their feelings and places it on their partner. So if she’s not receptive to the idea of working ok this with you, that’s your clue that she isn’t someone interested in growing in this way.
Almost no one marries their first partner. You just don't pick one and done. You date, look for red flags, and if you see one you break it off and move on. You've seen a red flag. Move on. When you are ready to date again you pick someone that you are attracted to and seems like a good person. If they have a red flag, you break it off.
Quite the ableist question don't you think? Coming from someone who is autistic myself and would NEVER partake in such childish behavior with my girlfriend. Why don't you actually learn about what being neurodivergent means before you say stupid shit like this. I'll answer your question. Who knows if he's autistic? Who cares if he's autistic? That's not an excuse to behave like an insufferable man child.
She wouldn't have been able to afford to pay for herself though.
Also of note: Disneyland is about a 35 minute drive from out house. She had never expressed an interest in going until this incident, when we wouldn't pay to fix her car.
I had a therapist tell me once that people in iOS relationships know they’re in good relationships, but people in bad relationships are confused.
I can only see mine haha. Wth!
A 29 year old man dating a 22 year old woman is a piece of shit?
I'm shocked. Shocked I tell you
I feel like it depends on what we're talking about. In this situation, I don't think she thinking maturely either.
Why at the young age of 23 do you want to deal with a man who has 2 children from 2 different women??? If you stay with him, your life will be greatly affected.
Child support to 2 different women. He would have to spilt his time up with his children and any you have together. You would be the last of the list. Your standard of living would not be good.
Have respect for yourself! WAKEUP!!! Why are you settling for someone like this!!!
Appreciate your input, thanks