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that’s true but he has told me how he hated that place how the memories of her pop up and stuff and now suddenly he wants to go?
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I'm sorry but when you see that side of someone I don't see how you can continue to be in a relationship with them. You haven't known her very long,your in the honeymoon phase. You have seen the real her, run! She is a horrible person, won't be long before she starts speaking to you like that
OP your feelings are also valid, you have been put in time out over something out of your control. She also needs the time for her own healing and one does not supersede the other. She has the choice to work through this with or without you. She may not be ready for another relationship. The question you must ask yourself is if you want to stay. Whether you want to be there when she pulls out of this is your choice.
This is her burden to wear, not yours. All actions have consequences. She is not the first in this situation and neither are you. We are all selfish and we are all allowed to be selfish. If this is hurting you, your mental health is paramount, for you, as is hers for her.
Your feelings are understandable, but in relationships, value is measured in more than money. Value comes from humor, love, kindness, intelligence, effort, respect… And it sounds like you've got lots of that to share.
You can turn this around. You need to look at yourself in the mirror and realize that your bf is with you precisely because of those things that he values – so why are you holding yourself up to some imaginary standard that even he wouldn't? Love yourself! You have so much to give!
Ok, here's the situation. I assume you are a girl. There is a pretty dude you find attractive. What's more, he's prettier then your bf. Like hot as fuck. Your bf asks whether you find the dude attractive, showing visible signs of being nervous about it. What would you say?
It stems from my need to people please and being overly caring. Trust me, I’ve tried leaving. At least 3 times. My mom says that dating a narcissist is nude because you become weak and addicted and it’s very nude to leave. I myself cannot understand it.
Even if he decided that only recently has he realized that he wants his children raised Jewish, that’s okay. But you can also believe that you are still set on giving your children religious freedom. Simply put, you guys are no longer a match. I’d wish him the best, and move on.
I had a BF in college that did this. No matter what I said he kept doing it. It escalated into me becoming violent. Dumping him is the best thing I've ever done.
The friends are key here. They see what she doesn’t. If it was a balanced, loving relationship otherwise, I don’t think they would push her to get paid for helping him with his business.
And the Oscar goes to…your (hopefully) soon to be ex husband for the absolute bullshit he tried to feed you.
It’s all within his control and he’s refusing to do it. Dump him.