A good way to tell if it is love bombing is to say no to something the “bomber” suggests and see how they react. If they don’t mind and just roll with it, then they are just attentive and affectionate. If they get mad, argue, or guilt, it’s love bombing.
Why is this even a question? You literally just described an abusive raging alcoholic / drug user that is violent and manipulative. I see zero chance of redemption for your relationship
Your girlfriend decided to play “big shot” at your expense. My guess is that she will try to manipulate you into getting over this by sex. You need a new girlfriend; one that isn't going to use you to impress her friends. In summary, one that places you as her number one; not someone way down the list behind her friends who will always take precedence
You can just level things out over time if she chooses to exclude 13F
A good way to tell if it is love bombing is to say no to something the “bomber” suggests and see how they react. If they don’t mind and just roll with it, then they are just attentive and affectionate. If they get mad, argue, or guilt, it’s love bombing.
How is it different from what I posted elsewhere? It’s the same I have nothing to hide, I just put in the relevant parts for this specific question
Why is this even a question? You literally just described an abusive raging alcoholic / drug user that is violent and manipulative. I see zero chance of redemption for your relationship
Your girlfriend decided to play “big shot” at your expense. My guess is that she will try to manipulate you into getting over this by sex. You need a new girlfriend; one that isn't going to use you to impress her friends. In summary, one that places you as her number one; not someone way down the list behind her friends who will always take precedence
He has feelings for her