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There is no good reason a 37 year old man should be pursuing a 23 year old woman. None. If nothing else, it means he lacks proper judgment and can’t recognize where boundaries should be. Not good qualities.
1) Your coworkers are lying and he is a great guy. 2) Your coworkers aren't lying, and that means your boyfriend, although hasn't lied has also not been transparent. 3) There is some truth in what your coworkers are saying and some truth in what you feel with this guy i.e., he was sleeping around but he is now loyal to you.
If it is 1, you shouldn't worry. But I hardly imagine that your coworkers would indulge in a gossip that would outrightly discredit a guy that much.
If it is 2, I would advise you to cut everything. But your prerogative as it depends on what is important to you in relationships.
If it is 3, you can either leave or test the waters so that you know he is truly loyal to you.
I mean honestly, these are all some probabilities. You should actually straight up ask him. It really depends on what he is saying.
Ma'am you're on Reddit fighting everyone who has pointed out how your actions are suspicious and definitely not giving the actual reason as if it bothered you so much you'd have put up boundaries years ago and/or told him immediately upon them starting to date. You threw a grenade into her relationship then backed out with this I can't answer his questions excuse.
Because some times GFs aren’t in the mood, or in this case asleep. Is he suppose to just stick it in her just because she is beside him? Sometimes a guy just needs to bust one. He might jerk off after she goes to sleep in another to not disturb her.
Well I'm about to ask someone on a date this Tuesday, so I'm hanging in there.
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There is no good reason a 37 year old man should be pursuing a 23 year old woman. None. If nothing else, it means he lacks proper judgment and can’t recognize where boundaries should be. Not good qualities.
Thank you. This helps
Some possibilities:
1) Your coworkers are lying and he is a great guy. 2) Your coworkers aren't lying, and that means your boyfriend, although hasn't lied has also not been transparent. 3) There is some truth in what your coworkers are saying and some truth in what you feel with this guy i.e., he was sleeping around but he is now loyal to you.
If it is 1, you shouldn't worry. But I hardly imagine that your coworkers would indulge in a gossip that would outrightly discredit a guy that much.
If it is 2, I would advise you to cut everything. But your prerogative as it depends on what is important to you in relationships.
If it is 3, you can either leave or test the waters so that you know he is truly loyal to you.
I mean honestly, these are all some probabilities. You should actually straight up ask him. It really depends on what he is saying.
Ma'am you're on Reddit fighting everyone who has pointed out how your actions are suspicious and definitely not giving the actual reason as if it bothered you so much you'd have put up boundaries years ago and/or told him immediately upon them starting to date. You threw a grenade into her relationship then backed out with this I can't answer his questions excuse.
Hair and beard are honestly not the same ??
Because some times GFs aren’t in the mood, or in this case asleep. Is he suppose to just stick it in her just because she is beside him? Sometimes a guy just needs to bust one. He might jerk off after she goes to sleep in another to not disturb her.
What's to discuss? It's a 5 second conversation.
You- It's too cold for me here, so I'll start paying for the utilities I use.
Him- okay, great.
If there's more than that then you need to edit the problems into the post. Reddit can't get it right if you're giving wrong information.
Oh, she's an egotistical asshole. She thinks she can just keep playing nude and cold with these stupid games.
The only way to beat this game is to not play it, just end the relationship.