Self- Awareness has a multitude of degrees to it and simply being self aware won’t save you from accidentally seeing something you didn’t want to though in truth idk why she thought that was casually a good idea most likely she was just in the moment doesn’t mean she lacks self-awareness no one is 24/7 self aware. however to try and say she and people with BPD lack self-awareness is completely false and kinda insulting.
Also there are lots of women who DO do that, most the population of women have been hurt already by some form of cheating or etc and it’s statistically proven women are learning from their experiences by staying single hence the current epidemic of lonely men.
So I’d say that the issue isn’t self-awareness on her part.
Unless this is the first time she was on his phone, which I doubt they sound like they do that often. He should’ve removed anything that might’ve be inappropriate in the first place. As a pre-caution, that is being self-aware.
So if your going to look at her and say oh she has BPD and can’t possibly be in relationships because she’s not self-aware then what does that make OP for not being self-aware enough yo have already gone through the entirety of his phone
Trying to insinuate that he should just leave cause of these two underlying potential issues is ill advice, There’s still room for recover if that’s the goal
Thinking actions are fine or not fine is not the same as being judgmental and belittling toward people you don't know about situations you've only seen small slices of
I didn't think about it until I was taking a shit and saw the shadow of a guy jerking it in the stall next to me. I will never understand what drives a person to jerk it at work.
Well, aside from someone else not being liable for helping pay the mortgage, I wouldn’t care too much. But yes I agree for a bigger conversation I think a professional would be best. I’ve been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half so I guess I didn’t see it being much being of serious issue until recently that our relationship had gotten to a more serious point
Self- Awareness has a multitude of degrees to it and simply being self aware won’t save you from accidentally seeing something you didn’t want to though in truth idk why she thought that was casually a good idea most likely she was just in the moment doesn’t mean she lacks self-awareness no one is 24/7 self aware. however to try and say she and people with BPD lack self-awareness is completely false and kinda insulting.
Also there are lots of women who DO do that, most the population of women have been hurt already by some form of cheating or etc and it’s statistically proven women are learning from their experiences by staying single hence the current epidemic of lonely men.
So I’d say that the issue isn’t self-awareness on her part.
Unless this is the first time she was on his phone, which I doubt they sound like they do that often. He should’ve removed anything that might’ve be inappropriate in the first place. As a pre-caution, that is being self-aware.
So if your going to look at her and say oh she has BPD and can’t possibly be in relationships because she’s not self-aware then what does that make OP for not being self-aware enough yo have already gone through the entirety of his phone
Trying to insinuate that he should just leave cause of these two underlying potential issues is ill advice, There’s still room for recover if that’s the goal
For sure, thanks
Thinking actions are fine or not fine is not the same as being judgmental and belittling toward people you don't know about situations you've only seen small slices of
I didn't think about it until I was taking a shit and saw the shadow of a guy jerking it in the stall next to me. I will never understand what drives a person to jerk it at work.
Some people tend to always end up in these situations though.
Well, aside from someone else not being liable for helping pay the mortgage, I wouldn’t care too much. But yes I agree for a bigger conversation I think a professional would be best. I’ve been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half so I guess I didn’t see it being much being of serious issue until recently that our relationship had gotten to a more serious point
You’re an idiot. Once a cheater always a cheater. If you choose to stay with him enjoy getting cheated on.