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Alex and Lesya, 99 y.o.
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Date: October 8, 2022
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It's not your fault. You deserve to be treated better, you deserve respect and you deserve love. The sooner you are rid of him the sooner you'll find those things.
100% creepy and not normal. Dude lacks boundaries and respect for women.
Nah bro my partner and I discussed whether or not we feel comfortable w the other maintaining a form of connection w people who the other wasn’t ok w in terms or behavior
And the first few months we were eh about it because the relationship was new but as it progressed we stayed we weren’t ok w these people and removed them as we realized they didn’t bring us any good to ourselves. It’s not hot.
The fact you defended a random chic instead of trying to understand your girls feelings probably made your girls defenses go up
Her parents were crying too ?
He won't be any good.
That's how everyone is when they start a new activity they've never done before. There's no reason to think he'll be an exception, and it's shitty if his teachers taught him to give up on stuff that he didn't find easy.
He needs to stop thinking about how good he should be. Being “good” in bed is for experienced people, not beginners.
While some people treat sex as a sport, it's not what it's usually about.
It's about intimacy. It's about fun. It's about exploring together. It's about learning what your partner likes. It's about discovering what you like.
It doesn't have to be a performance. That's what porn actors do (and let me tell you, they have their own problems sometimes, they just don't end up on screen).
In the privacy of your bedroom? He's not expected to perform. He won't get judged for a bad performance. He's just expected to be there and possibly to not run away in the middle of things. Or it's ok if he runs, as long as he comes back with an explanation of what triggered it and how to avoid it in the future. That's it. That's all that's needed. Willingness.
First goal shouldn't certainly be successful PIV sex with both of you having an orgasm. It's about intimacy and feeling good, right? So first goal is being intimate, and do things that feel good. Actual penetration and orgasms are advanced topics that he'll have time to delve into when he feels comfortable with the basics.
The goal is to be together and feel good. Not orgasms. Not his penis staying hot. Not penetration. Sounds more reasonable, yes? Get hot, lie down, touch each other, yay! Goal achieved!
(Ok now, sex isn't that naked, he'll be fine when he stops self sabotaging, but let's not tell him that you expect him to reach a certain level of competence eventually. Start small)
Even that is ridiculous. That's like deciding a girl isn't good enough because she didn't come the first time you fucked her. What a dumb way to pick a partner.
You should definitely have the discussion with him. It would be quite reasonable to tell him that you've seen a lot of growth but you're also nervous about things ever getting as bad as they were once. Say you want children but you're not feeling real confident.
Let him respond.
Keep assessing how he's handling things and how well you two are communicating, or not. I would not tell you it should be out of the qeustion. Yes you had a rocky start, but you do see some progress and the last 8 months have been good.
I have a friend who does elaborate parties fairly often, this is how she lets everyone know when, where, and what to bring. It is super convenient and Facebook sends reminders often enough that I don’t forget. Most useful thing on that platform.
Not to be rude but why even come on here and make this post if you’re not gonna take any good advice or criticism on your fiancé/situation?