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you don't want to throw the relationship away yet she already did by cheating. lots of red flags. text messages, access to the flat. forget emotional cheating. it's clear that they were cheating physically. this has turned toxic and you need to walk away as hot as it sounds. you need time to heal and move forward with your life. my longtime gf blamed me for her cheating too. don't fall for that tactic. She doesn't want to own up or take responsibility for her actions.
So? Do you have a point or are you just putting forth tidbits about how the average height increases an inch every 65 years?
“would you let yourself get raped.”
What a horrific question, he is basically equating the choice of not having a gun to choosing to be raped. So yeah, you were right to call it victim blaming.
He told me in no uncertain terms to never, ever say anything like that to him again and if I respond like this to these sorts of conversations I shouldn’t try talking about them.
This sentence right here is enough for me to tell you to leave him. He is saying he refuses your line of reasoning and you should never use it again, that's something the worst of political enemies tell each other, not a partner.
I seemed to have pushed him way too far
No, you didn't push too far. He took WAY too much offense to a person that prefers NOT to carry a deadly weapon. He responded by telling you that any arguments against carrying are essentially wrong and to never bring them up again. What a fucking asshole.
And there are certainly other ways to protect yourself, but you aren't allowed to talk to him about that.
have safe ways home have people know where you are have people with you watch your drinks carry pepper spray or other non-lethal weapons know your area, know where not to go (at night) etc
Sure there's always a risk, even if you do everything “right”, but as you pointed out there are risks inherent with carrying a gun as well.
You can't control who she talks to or her actions but you can control yours. Talk and set firm boundaries and be ready to end the relationship if she isn't ready to adhere to those or if she crosses the boundaries.
People she's working with aren't kids or blind, they've seen them interacting and spending time, hence the talk about them being a potentially good couple.
Have one discussion (first and final) about whether she's willing to put up boundaries or not. As soon as she says no, end it.
I am so sorry that you are experiencing this. I really am.
I was in a similar situation than you. My ex was an emotional mess and even treating me poorly and having emotional affairs I decided to stay cause I loved him. I supported him, payed the bills, allowed him to follow his dreams to be rewarded with a talk ask for us to have an open marriage because he wanted to explore his sexuality and date other women. He already had a girl ten years younger that he wanted to pursue.
I was devastated. And after having a crisis and suffer so much, I decided to chose myself and I left him.
I never been happier. Sure, leaving a long term relationships sucks and took me ages to be ready to date again. And is not easy cause I am one year younger than you and I am fat, which makes me almost an alien on the dating market, but better alone than with an abuser..and I have some fun. Life is easier and happier.
I wish you chose yourself and do the same..you are amazing and you deserve better.
Is having an antivax bf a deal breaker for you?
If so, break up, there's nothing else to do and it's only sane – you are incompatible on a very basic level, trust in modern medicine – will you trust him to follow best medical practices if you're incapable of giving medical consent?
If not, then do whatever really – if course setting an ultimatum doesn't make sense, because you already said it's not a deal breaker so you won't leave him over this. You can't fix stupid, so it's very likely you can't convince him, even though you may try. He will continue to ignore the best safety guidelines and not get vaccinated, and you might have to deal with the consequences sometime down the line. I award you no points, and may the Flying Spaghetti Monster have mercy on your souls.
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Yeah she continued this marriage with the knowledge she cheated, you didn't. There's no way you can trust her going forward. Also the fact she keeps in contact with the guy shows she doesn't respect you at all. You're young, get out while you can.
Is there a therapist that specializes in addiction? I have tried to stop multiple times and I just can't, it's not that I don't want to, I physically can't, it's like an itch that needs to be scratched. I know I have an issue, I just don't know how to solve it, quitting cold turkey didn't work, so how else could I stop?
This post sounds so fake.
Same here. Thankfully, neither of us likes having guests over, so it's not an issue.
The sad truth is, OP, that you need to divorce this man because he’s also an abuser. You also should get some counseling to explore why you choose abusers.
Yes. Took me about 6 months. Now I rarely think about her. I'm remarried and have been with my wife for 13 years.
Lmao this isn't ADHD. He's blaming all his problems on it. He's fully capable of doing things on his own. But he never will because you do it all for him. Stop putting up with this. If his ADHD was so debilitating, he would've gotten help
You don’t owe him a letter. He knows what he did. Congratulations on graduating!! Xx
Its easier to get healthier when we love ourselves and can recognize that we're still human beings who deserve to feel good in our own skin. When I gained a lot of weight something that helped me a lot was picking one part of my body I loved. Just one. For me, I'll be honest- it was my newly huge boobs. Whenever I I dressed, I would dress in a way that showed them off. Low cut shirts, push up Bras, tight sweaters you get it. It helped me feel attractive again and kept me from wanting to cover myself up. Try to find one part of your body you like, and make it a goal to dress in a way that highlights each day. It doesn't have to be a body part either. If you love your eyes for example, you could start doing makeup in a way that draws attention to them.