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I think it's fairly normal for sex drives to wane when you've been with someone for a long time. The cliche of never getting any after marriage exists for a reason.
Best thing you can do is go out of your way to make her feel special and figure out whatever gets her in the mood. But the person with the lower sex drive basically has all the power in this area in marriage unfortunately.
As a Muslim who grew up in a Muslim household (but we weren't overly religious) I'm going to tell you the truth which applies to 99% of all situations where a Muslim is dating a non Muslim. You will NEVER end up together. And due to this you're absolutely right as he shouldn't be dating you being he probably already knows this, and he's a hypocrite for dating you and then pulling the Muslim card become if he was devout he never would date you to begin with being one of the biggest sins in Islam is any sex/fornication before marriage. The only way you end up together is if he agrees to leave everything he knows behind. Family, relatives, anyone in the Muslim community, and he would also need to leave the religion behind as Muslim men are forbidden religiously from marrying atheists. If he's religious, and if the family is religious, which it sounds like, then there's NO WAY IN HELL HE MARRIES YOU. Sorry but this is just the truth. And at least he kind of admitted this to you. Most Muslim guys his age lie and will say oh I'll convince my parents, they'll be okay with it, oh I'll leave them for you, we will figure it out and then never do. I have seen almost all of my male family members do this to women. Also if he's a Muslim from a country and culture where arranged marriages are the norm, his family will be looking to marry him off soon. Most of our men get married around his age and almost always at or under 25 (although this is slowly changing). Lastly I'm going to help you with this conversion thing, even if you did convert, which would make the marriage acceptable religiously, the family probably still wouldn't accept you or the marriage unless they are much more westernized and forward thinking than most Muslim families. Usually the family wants the spouse to be someone of the same culture, who speaks the same language, who can cook the same foods, and someone who understands that regardless of whether she works or not a wife's first and foremost occupation is homemaker, wife, and mother. So I born and raised in the US, as were my siblings, cousins, and all the “younger generations” in our families (I'm 45 now). Let me tell you most of my family still do not accept this. I married a Muslim (she didn't need to convert, as dad and mom were Muslims) who wasn't accepted because she was half Brazilian, even though she was raised in my country and small town of ancestry. Didn't speak to parents for a few years due to it and other reasons and ended up divorced. Cousin married a woman who was half Muslim half Christian, but practiced only Islam, and she wasn't accepted either due to this even though she was the same culture as us. My nephew just married a Greek woman in September who refused to convert. We had to drag my sister (his mom) to the wedding and even in the days prior she was begging him not to do this. And any of our relatives that were there, all they talked about was what a shame it is that he is marrying “a foreigner, an outsider, a heathen, someone who's going to hell”.. Etc etc. My sister hasn't spoken to him since the day after the wedding and she's still pissed at us for convincing her to go. Btw if you forgot I come from a household that isn't too religious. For instance I didn't pray my obligated 5 times a day and wasn't judged for it. We did “American things”and engaged in “American culture” and my parents didn't mind. And even with that these are my situations. Btw just FYI The strain of what occurred due to my marriage was a major factor in my divorce. I mean I have since become even less religious and I don't adhere or agree with a lot of the religious aspects of Islam or the cultural aspects of my ancestry and upbringing. But again I had to leave it all behind and it took until I was 34 to do it. Most never do. You're young and it's only been 5 months. Break up now and don't date Muslims. You'll be doing yourself a huge favor in the long run and also TRUE MUSLIMS SHOULDN'T BE DATING AND THEY DEFINITELY SHOULDN'T BE DATING AN ATHEIST.
Dude posts looking for advice, receives advice he doesn’t like, ignores all of it, and does it his own way.
Good luck, man.
Female here in the future try “hey I would like to get to know you better what music are you currently enjoying?” Next time you see them ask them what book they enjoyed last if they are still receptive get to coffee good luck ?
Way to bury the lead in your post.
Leave, now. Unless you want a kid at 21, which seems like you don’t. If somebody did that to me and it was against my wishes I’d never talk to them again. Imagine if the roles were reversed? Betting she wouldn’t be very thrilled. You’re 21 dude. Live! life, be happy, you don’t need this kind of fuckery in your life.
I’m so sorry. Sometimes when people are grieving or stressed out they just lose the capacity to accommodate others’ feelings on top of their own, doesn’t mean it’s the right thing to do. You’re both young and she’s probably overwhelmed. However, after 5 years it’s right to feel that she owes you a little more than that.
If you’re comfortable with it I might just text her and say something like “I’m sorry about what you’re going through, I want to be here for you however I can and if that means giving you space for now I can definitely do so. However I would appreciate if we could talk a little more in depth about our relationship when you’re in a better headspace.”
I would try and keep it light for now and do your best to give her space while just checking in periodically. She may be reacting to what she’s currently going through and come to regret her abruptness with you, but it’s really very hot to say. Because also to have been together for five years when you’re only 18 and 19 means you’ve been together through some MAJOR life changes. Like, entire personality, turning into a person changes. It’s natural for the relationship to change or grow apart, as much as it absolutely sucks.
Her best friend came to me and told me
I wonder why. It seems like an out of the blue thing to do (I guess maybe she was changing phone and saw the video).
In the video I can clearly see my wife making out with a guy and his hands were on her breasts, they were in a rooftop party and everyone was drunk
Yeah that would be a no bueno for me. One thing that sticks out is that the only thing that she admits to is stuff that she was caught doing.
she is adamant that they did not have sex. They just made out and cuddled but no sex.
It sounds like it could be trickle truth, she admits to what she was caught doing and no more. Remember this, there is no credit for telling the truth because if it wasn't for the friend being honest she wouldn't have confessed. It might help to draw an actual timeline and get her to be very specific about what happened and where, also an open device policy (although any message could have been deleted by now). Personally I couldn't believe someone that lied to me, regardless about what it was about.
My first instinct was to file for divorce but we have a 6 yo and I dont want to see her every other week
The thing about this is that your daughter will notice if you guys aren't ok and if you can't genuinely forgive then this will come through. I would consult a lawyer and maybe push for 50/50.
Good luck and I hope she is telling the truth finally, but I am jaded from reddit and liars XD