It sounds like you are experiencing a lot of uncertainty and discomfort in your relationship. It is understandable that you would feel confused and concerned if you feel that your boyfriend may have a deeper relationship with his friend. It is important to communicate openly and honestly with your boyfriend about your feelings and concerns. It may also be helpful for both of you to seek the support of a therapist to work through any trust or communication issues. It is ultimately up to you to decide if you want to continue the relationship, but it is important to prioritize your own emotional well-being and address any issues that may be causing you distress.
I was in a similar situation with my ex for our relationship. It was an awesome 3 years but the constant talking and lack of boundaries definitely wore on me and took a toll on my everyday functioning. Set those boundaries early and communicate your feelings with her, transparency goes a long way.
You give up now because he has already told you he doesn’t want to come back to this relationship. Respect his wishes and focus on yourself—pick up a hobby, etc.
I don’t know why you are getting voted down for asking a simple question but yes, in all likelihood he was enticed by some one else to send some. That’s how this scam operates.
I'm not ascribing malice anywhere. You are the one projecting. She could just be really dumb and doesn't listen to the words that are coming out of his mouth. It doesn't matter, though. She's still acting entitled and making it all about herself. That in itself means she doesn't give a shit about his feelings.
People do dumb shit all the time without malice. However, what you do is listen, apologize, and move on. She's done none of those things.
She thought she was doing something nice, but she wasn't.
I get people drop hints, but he didn't drop a hint. He said he was going to buy it. Full stop. He communicated clearly what he was going to do. His respo se is fine. Hers is not.
But I don't see how. I'm really hurt and want him to know how this affected me.
People are fully aware how much ghosting hurts someone, especially a 37y.o. He just doesn't care or else he'd have responded to your attempts at contacting him. The best thing you can do for yourself is move on. A letter will just make you look desperate.
In a lot of jurisdictions, you can’t legally record someone without their consent. If that’s the case for OP, then the recording could not be used as evidence in a trial.
Congratulations on being married and a wonderful wedding! Glad that it went so well.
It sounds like you are experiencing a lot of uncertainty and discomfort in your relationship. It is understandable that you would feel confused and concerned if you feel that your boyfriend may have a deeper relationship with his friend. It is important to communicate openly and honestly with your boyfriend about your feelings and concerns. It may also be helpful for both of you to seek the support of a therapist to work through any trust or communication issues. It is ultimately up to you to decide if you want to continue the relationship, but it is important to prioritize your own emotional well-being and address any issues that may be causing you distress.
Whatever brings in the bacon.
I was in a similar situation with my ex for our relationship. It was an awesome 3 years but the constant talking and lack of boundaries definitely wore on me and took a toll on my everyday functioning. Set those boundaries early and communicate your feelings with her, transparency goes a long way.
theres a difference between lying and purposely giving your partner insecurities
they’re still required to inform all sexual partners, unprotected or not. if it’s not informed consent, it’s not consent.
Haha ? idk
I know thats the only logical.. but nowadays i iust cant seem to think logically.
You give up now because he has already told you he doesn’t want to come back to this relationship. Respect his wishes and focus on yourself—pick up a hobby, etc.
I don’t know why you are getting voted down for asking a simple question but yes, in all likelihood he was enticed by some one else to send some. That’s how this scam operates.
I'm not ascribing malice anywhere. You are the one projecting. She could just be really dumb and doesn't listen to the words that are coming out of his mouth. It doesn't matter, though. She's still acting entitled and making it all about herself. That in itself means she doesn't give a shit about his feelings.
People do dumb shit all the time without malice. However, what you do is listen, apologize, and move on. She's done none of those things.
She thought she was doing something nice, but she wasn't.
I get people drop hints, but he didn't drop a hint. He said he was going to buy it. Full stop. He communicated clearly what he was going to do. His respo se is fine. Hers is not.
Is y’all’s relationship seriously about the minor gifts u give each other?? YTA.
But I don't see how. I'm really hurt and want him to know how this affected me.
People are fully aware how much ghosting hurts someone, especially a 37y.o. He just doesn't care or else he'd have responded to your attempts at contacting him. The best thing you can do for yourself is move on. A letter will just make you look desperate.
In a lot of jurisdictions, you can’t legally record someone without their consent. If that’s the case for OP, then the recording could not be used as evidence in a trial.
The only person who gets to decide who Lola calls Dad is Lola. If she’s made that decision to call you Dad then you’ve earned it.
She was getting multiple tests, so she must’ve know she was going abit overboard with sleeping with new people