I have a shopping list of facts I'm curious about: – How old is he? – Is this other female a relative, friend, or former romantic partner? – Is there any romantic attraction between the two of them? – Have the two of them been through any traumatic experiences together? – Would you describe them as emotionally similar? – Are you emotionally similar or dissimilar to your boyfriend? – How long have you and your boyfriend been together?
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If you genuinely want to try and rekindle the friendship it’d probably be best if you at the very least give her the option to come, wether she comes or not is anyone’s guess but at least you’ve put it out there.
There’s always a very real risk of pregnancy, yeah, but as long as you’re using contraceptive properly, the odds should be very low.
Using contraceptive in combination can also reduce the risk of pregnancy even further. For example, your girlfriend being on birth control as well as using condoms would make the chances of a pregnancy occurring practically zero. Not exactly zero, but virtually zero. My ex-girlfriend and I used birth control and pulling out in combination.
Other than that, your other options—albeit a little extreme—are to get a vasectomy or be abstinent.
Lol, good to hear he showed his true colours. I found the same thing happened with guys at my girlfriends uni who wanted to have lunch with her. For some mysterious reason they always said it's fine that she's in a relationship because they just want friends, but when she said I'd be coming along to make friends too they'd change their minds.
Dump him. Now.
I have a shopping list of facts I'm curious about: – How old is he? – Is this other female a relative, friend, or former romantic partner? – Is there any romantic attraction between the two of them? – Have the two of them been through any traumatic experiences together? – Would you describe them as emotionally similar? – Are you emotionally similar or dissimilar to your boyfriend? – How long have you and your boyfriend been together?
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If you genuinely want to try and rekindle the friendship it’d probably be best if you at the very least give her the option to come, wether she comes or not is anyone’s guess but at least you’ve put it out there.
There’s always a very real risk of pregnancy, yeah, but as long as you’re using contraceptive properly, the odds should be very low.
Using contraceptive in combination can also reduce the risk of pregnancy even further. For example, your girlfriend being on birth control as well as using condoms would make the chances of a pregnancy occurring practically zero. Not exactly zero, but virtually zero. My ex-girlfriend and I used birth control and pulling out in combination.
Other than that, your other options—albeit a little extreme—are to get a vasectomy or be abstinent.
I do not. I have cut her off, no contact.
She is definitely bored and single. I always told her she used me as her verbal punching bag, she just rolled her eyes and called me mentally ill.
Lol, good to hear he showed his true colours. I found the same thing happened with guys at my girlfriends uni who wanted to have lunch with her. For some mysterious reason they always said it's fine that she's in a relationship because they just want friends, but when she said I'd be coming along to make friends too they'd change their minds.