I'm not saying you have to do it all the time~ once a week, once a month- just pepper it in when it's convenient for you. You got a life and happiness to balance as well, and he should also be understanding of that
He takes care of his 2 younger siblings a lot while his parents work and she's in soccer and orchestra which take up LOTS of their time. As well as her parents being very strict and not letting them hangout until they meet him which he's doing at her orchestra concert in April
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A while back, my boyfriend opened his Instagram in front of me and his algorithm was full of reels and pics of hard women. I asked him if he could clean that up since at that point we were getting more serious and it kind of felt disrespectful. Based on what he told me, he unfollowed some accounts and there isn’t nearly as much of that content on his feed.
Fast forward months later to now, he & I were lying next to each other and scrolling through our phones when he received a notification from his boys group chat. One of his friends sent a hot picture of a girl. I asked him to scroll up and it was more pictures and videos of sexual content and almost entirely nude women.
This made me extremely uncomfortable, and I didn’t say anything in the moment because I was shocked. I’m not sure if this is normal behavior for men, but regardless, it made me feel really insecure. How should I confront this issue? Or is it even worth my time mentioning it?
Depends on when he acquired that 100k. Could be pre marriage
I'm not saying you have to do it all the time~ once a week, once a month- just pepper it in when it's convenient for you. You got a life and happiness to balance as well, and he should also be understanding of that
He takes care of his 2 younger siblings a lot while his parents work and she's in soccer and orchestra which take up LOTS of their time. As well as her parents being very strict and not letting them hangout until they meet him which he's doing at her orchestra concert in April
This post has reached one of our comment/karma limits. The text of the post has been preserved below.
A while back, my boyfriend opened his Instagram in front of me and his algorithm was full of reels and pics of hard women. I asked him if he could clean that up since at that point we were getting more serious and it kind of felt disrespectful. Based on what he told me, he unfollowed some accounts and there isn’t nearly as much of that content on his feed.
Fast forward months later to now, he & I were lying next to each other and scrolling through our phones when he received a notification from his boys group chat. One of his friends sent a hot picture of a girl. I asked him to scroll up and it was more pictures and videos of sexual content and almost entirely nude women.
This made me extremely uncomfortable, and I didn’t say anything in the moment because I was shocked. I’m not sure if this is normal behavior for men, but regardless, it made me feel really insecure. How should I confront this issue? Or is it even worth my time mentioning it?