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Date: October 9, 2022
What's stopping you travelling? Or moving on to another town that you might prefer?
I am 34, she is 29. The child is her biological son, not mine.
Why not hire a housekeeper to come in and do the housework, since you are obviously concerned that it is not getting done? You do say you are earning more than you ever had before. Give your wife time to heal fully, mind and body before you write her off because she isn’t keeping up to your standards. Believe me when I say, as a single man paying to raise 4 kids alone, it will take a LOT more out of your salary than a housekeeper now.
Thank you ! although it still makes me confused i do understand what you mean and appreciate your advice.
Just not sure if the “maybe hurt you feelings” is about something deeper like being guilty or ultimately breaking up or something
Agreed. It is actually unfair to not communicate with your partner and then resent them for not doing what you want. Every person is unique and needs/wants different things.
This is part of your college experience and connecting with your classmates is very important. If they are all doing this together weekly, you need to join them.
It will take you some time to process that he is controlling and abusive to you…..until he hits you.
You need to start by calling this exactly what it is. It’s sexual assault. Now ask yourself if you’re okay with staying with someone who has sexually assaulted you and showed no remorse.
Given how you have doubts, simply be more careful.
Use two forma of protection if you have sex… and make sure you date someone who doesn't want kids now, someone who is on the same page about abortion.
Admit that you’re in a relationship.
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Another important aspect I must mention: after my first year of college, there was a shift in dynamics. I did not have as much work and I was able to be a better gf. We started spending quality time together and work related issues faded. What remained however were the other insecurities. My boyfriend still couldn’t fully digest when I would party or go out or hang out with friends. Not that he would object every single time but every now and then there would be a tantrum. And hence whenever I did not wish to deal with these I would hide or lie. Certainly this is unacceptable behaviour in a relationship, but clearly, I had developed a habit. I do not think I hid anything too bad though, before any of you start thinking that I cheated or something. The biggest lie I told was that I went on a day trip with friends that I never told him about. Other than this a couple lunches with friends or hiding how much I drank would be my lies. Not trying to be defensive here, just explaining the extent of lies. My boyfriend always knew my friends, always knew when I’m out at night etc. If I may take the liberty to put it this way, none of these lies were meant to disrespect our relationship, in my head I was only protecting my peace because I wanted to have fun and enjoy my freedom. Of course this doesn’t justify what I have done and I feel like a terrible person. There is no excuse for this and I should have done better.
Please advise on what I should do and how I should tell the truth and apologise to my boyfriend.
Ps. We are otherwise perfectly happy together and have our plans in place now that I’m back at home. Things are a lot less complicated when we are face to face and our old peace returns. So I don’t wish to break up, I just want to close this chapter of our lives and move on peacefully and more importantly with an honest resolution of the past.
Could really use some advice!!