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Date: October 10, 2022
So did she actually say you’re boring or did she say you’re in the middle all the time? Or both? Sounds to me like her only relationships have been toxic where she doesn’t know where the person’s mood is going to be. Abusive partners will frame this type of flipped switch as “exciting”, when it’s actually terrifying. And since your mood is pretty even (compared to what she’s used to) she’s saying she doesn’t have to walk around on eggshells with you. Victims in abusive relationships often make light of the abuse they’ve suffered because it’s easier than coming to terms with the fact that they’ve been victimized. After all, abuse “happens to other people”. I honestly do not think she’s bored of you, I think she’s relieved.
You’ve only been together 2 months, but I would try communicating how that made you feel, she might not realize she hurt your feelings and may find a better way to communicate herself
You don't sound mature enough to be in a relationship. Stop asking questions and overreacting to the answers.
Anyone else immediately start looking to find out how old she was when they got together?
You need to learn how to communicate and stay away from people who can’t. None of that interaction should have happened. Get your stuff when it’s safe, get out, and take some time to heal. Insulting your partner isn’t acceptable, this isn’t how you build a good relationship. Lifting hands is never acceptable either. You need to get away. Start looking for a lawyer.
You having feelings for her and suspecting she has feelings for you and casually hanging at your place once or twice a week is not dating, or a relationship. So no she didn't cheat. But this will be always this 'we were on a break!!' kind of situation where you both see this from a different perspective.
I hear you but the difference is if she states facts (e.g. the no friends example) – that's TOTALLY fine. I'm willing to listen and have a calm discussion about it regardless of whether I feel offended. I'm not going to blow up, yell, swear, accuse, etc.
If I bring up something (which is simply info. I have no intention of being negative or stubborn about it), she'll usually immediately get defensive or stonewall, yell, etc.
Here's an example – she used to have a friend who would always talk shit behind people's backs. I warned her that her 'friend' could very well do that to her and to be careful. She immediately got defensive and yelled about how they were friends for almost 15 years, she'd never talk shit about her, starting screaming that i was talking shit about her friends, etc. I was simply pointing out a factual and intuitive observation without any exaggerations. She could have been calm about it, but nope. She had to make a scene.
Then guess what happened? That same 'friend,' a few months later, texted me and talked shit about my gf. I showed my gf the text, my gf got livid and my gf ended her friendship.
That's a prime example of me bringing up info in a calm manner, that could potentially be 'offensive' or 'negative' but is based in reality. If she weren't so emotional, she would have also analyzed what i was saying and seriously considered it, but she didn't.
I'm 100% prefer to be with a partner who brings up rational points that could possibly be offensive, but is mature about communicating it and is open to discussing a rational plan of action (what to do next, etc.)
I can have other discussions with people with whom we can share facts/logic that could possibly be offensive, but we discuss it calmly and rationally (and eventually reach a point of consensus) without raising our voices or getting emotional about it.
Ew.
THANK YOU!! No one seems to acknowledge that SHE could've given him a heads up to the company, which would've then prompted him to say, not today.
And that generally happens because men are not doing 50% of the care of the children before the separation. The share you’re doing before hand has a big influence on your share afterwards and for many men that means they don’t get 50:50
And you're with this guy why …? Leave. Move back in with your mom if you need to, moms are awesome and she will no doubt be happy to help you.
What this eejit thinks about what you choose to do … nah, that doesn't matter. You just take care of yourself and do what is best for you. HE definitely isn't it.