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Date: October 10, 2022
Thank you. So I guess I won’t respond if he does reaches out or say I’m not going and move along
Sounds terrible. Why would you want to be with someone who treats you like that?
I just noticed you said you moved there only a week ago. You’re definitely overreacting and expecting too much of him. If he’s spending time with you then he likes you.
I mean 50+ hoodies would take up a lot of wardrobe space. I wouldn’t make any demands on what’s in her wardrobe but maybe ask if she could get rid of some of them and just keep some of the ones that she likes (don’t know if she wears many/any of them). Maybe donate to a local homeless charity? As depending where you are in the world it’s pretty cold in a fair few places and it should at least go to a good cause.
Omg. Get back in the 50s where you belong.
I have a feeling this post is fake, also given the replies she's giving. But I may be wrong.. however, yes that's exactly what grooming is
Sounds like she is over you using her as a means to fall asleep.
These are vague but even so you think the appropriate response to that is to be unkind? He’s not accepting these invitations. He’s not excluding her. He’s got gesturing playfully. He’s just being nice because I’m her own words he’s a nice guy.
Comments that don’t show are usually just spam the mods mute. Just fyi. As for your husband, two things, you’re only asking him to not fap to two exes, so he has literal billions of women from porn and his own fantasies that he can fap to instead. The fact that fapping to two exes is that important that he’ll fight you that much over is just crazy and comes off like he still has a thing for them. And how does he fap, does he have old nudie pics of them? That’s creepy as fuck if he does.
As for you telling him last minute, that does suck. I get you’ve been coming to terms with how you feel about it, but for him it might feel like you were trickle truthing him on what your real boundaries were. So I’d appologize for that, tell him you’ll work to be more direct sooner so as not to switch things up on him last minute. But then hold firm. And seriously if he can’t legit not fap to just two women out of billions and that’s a hill he wants to die on, separation seems a legit response because his priority seems to be fapping to two women out of billions rather than making his real life partner feel valued and loved.
Sweetie these are all red flags. He has a terrible temper and one of these days it might be your face getting punched.
I would leave permanently. He needs to seek a therapist who knows how to deal with anger management and any other emotions he doesn't constructively handle.
Also there isn't anything wrong with being sensitive. What your bf doesn't know how to do is express his emotions in a healthy way and that goes back to how he was raised and how he was taught to handle his emotions as a child. If one of his parents were like that, then it's learned behavior.
Everything you described reminds me of my dad growing up as a kid and when I was with my abusive ex. My father was abusive as well. All it takes is for your current S.O. to black out during a fit of rage and he can severely hurt you, leading up to death. I've seen my father choke my mother. My ex flipped out once when I was riding with him in the car, weaving in and out of traffic. And screaming uncontrollably. Pulling over to the side, getting out of the car just screaming and acting erratic. I knew he was going to be abusing me next for whatever he was mad about.
Your safety is important, getting away is the safest thing you can do for yourself.
Thanks. Agreed, I'm definitely going to be doing some soul searching.
You cannot fix her
Calendar reminders for every important day in your relationship (birthdays, anniversaries, holidays, etc) that have a reminder a week in advance so you can plan something. Google “Spontaneous Romantic Gesture for Wife” or something like that and write down the 20 or so that you like and think your wife would appreciate (examples being buy her flowers, get her favorite chocolates, run her a bubble bath with a lit candle in her favorite scent next to it). Set a reminder in your calendar every 11-15 days (or however often you think would be appropriate). Use Google to roll a d20 (or whatever number of romantic things you wrote down), and then do whatever number it landed on that time so you're mixing it up.
You don't need a special app that's more than a calendar and Google. Just do a little work at these beginning and it'll work fine.
How did you find out for certain?
Thank you for your reply. Yes I suppose I should just suck it up. I feel selfish wanting him to be here instead of there. I won’t ask him to stay but I do desperately wish he would choose to. Thanks.
I see , well i do think that is true indeed , am not sure that it's an insecurity, but i personally come from a culture where if someone flirts with your beloved (wife , girlfriend etc) it's disrespectful for her and for you and you are ought to protect her from touches words and even perverted gazes because she is valuable same way a royal girl is … but maybe I'm burning steps and moving in too fast and i should consider my relationship to be a little more casual where we both allowed a bit of fun even when it includes the other gender
She did date outside her race which is white/Hispanic much to my discontent and now she currently dates Hispanic which is still inside her heritage. Therefore she maintains racial purity by sticking to her white/Hispanic roots.
It’s a comfort thing. Let him go.
You two have shared a lot of time together. A lot of growth happens between 16 and 25. Sometimes that growth means you grow together, other times it means people grow apart. Doesn’t make you ungrateful, and it doesn’t make you a bad person for wanting more.
He wants to be wanted because he’s needed.
He is living a life he joined but didn’t create. Its not typical.
Yeah I feel really different but it's okay, time heals every wound!
You showed backbone and self-respect, nothing to be ashamed of! Now file this girl as a barely noteworthy side note in your history and go out and date people who show you the respect you show yourself. You got this!
Do you suppose those other guys also got fulsome affirmations of contentment?
If she was cheating the whole time with that one fellow, why did she get into a relationship she didnt want?
You are being lied to by a habitual liar. If she isnt already cheating the probability she will is astronomical. Do not be tricked by her honesty – often its a way of future proofing the revelations to come. “I did tell you who I was” followed by the weak refrain “I have not been happy for a while”.
You can believe in Easter bunnies, father Christmas, your magic dick that transforms the mental issues that drive a serial cheater if you want to. Prepare to have the belief demolished…
Report her for advising you to stay in an abusive relationship.
Sounds like she bought her diploma off the internet.
OP about to be like the singer in a country song… lost his house, his dog, his truck, both of his wives and both of his daughters. He’s crossing a wooden bridge in a flaming suit and you sure can bet it’s gonna burn.
Your GF knows you only divorced because your ex wife cheated on you with your best friend and now you are friends with her after she did this to you. You need to prioritize your GF over your ex wife. Would you be ok if your GF was still involved emotionally with her ex? Yes you have a child together but that should be the extent of your commitment to ex. You are being disrespectful to your GF
No, it means she knows she's not going to get anyone better, but still needs to feel superior to him. I'm a model, you are overweight. She's on top. You turn it around can outdo her at anything she complains about. Instead of being filled with self doubt as she wanted you to be, you took the healthy view of this is not making me happy, time to stop it. Now she's trying to reel you back in, she thought she'd crushed you and leaving for her sisters would scare you into feeling like the undeserving waste of space she needs you to feel, so she can delude herself she's in charge.
People do not change on a fundamental level. She sees herself as being above you, out of your league, she'll never shake that off and she'll slip quietly back into trying to make you believe that.
Tell her to move out.
You've got a lot to offer, look for a woman who isn't scared to be an equal.
That okay again but the other is like the screeching of chalk on a board unnerving to just read ?
I mean, that's up to you. I'm older, so I may look at things differently than you do. But I will say that if it were me, I wouldn't bother. Life is too short to be concerned about how other people feel for the consequences of their own actions.
I'm so sorry for the loss of your father and I say this for perspective not to be hurtful. When my mom was in palliative care I moved in with my parents for probably a month and left my husband alone. I even remember if I talked to him daily or how often I saw him or made any effort with him. I was completely shut down and spending all my energy taking care of my mom. My husband was nothing but supportive and did anything he could to take care of me and my family.
Thats the kind of man you want behind you not someone who “feels lonely” after a week when you are dealing with the hardest time in you life. He should be visiting if he can, calling you and texting you with no expectation of a response so you know your loved and supported. He should be sending you care packages or food deliveries to make sure you're taken care of.. not f**cking someone else.
You could just ask him wtf is up. No point in assuming and screwing yourself up over it. Then regardless of what he tells you never talk to him again.
I think at this point there isn’t much you can do. At most, you can apologize for bringing relationship drama in to his business and tell him you were trying to look out for him, but that you won’t bring it up again. If shit hits the fan, then you say, “sorry dude, but I tried to warn you.”
You gave him the info, but it’s his life.
Idk how to put years but it’s supposed to be 65 months
Update: It's been a week since I posted this and I was able to build up the confidence to confront Joshua. It didn't go as badly as I thought, he didn't realize just how much of a burden he had been putting on me with all the housework. It may take some pushing but I think he'll start to do a more balanced share of the work around here. I did bring up couple's counseling/therapy and as suggested by people here I did try to push for non church affiliated counseling but that's something that Joshua couldn't accept. I'm at least glad he agreed to some form of counseling. I'm hopeful that things could turn around and I could love him more again. I do however think the few of you who suggested it may have been onto something when you said Jess may be into me. When I told her we were trying to work things out and go to couples therapy she gave me the most unenthusiastic “I'm so happy for you,” that I've ever heard. I thought Jess would be more happy for me and I was heartbroken that she wasn't. She also gave me a hug when leaving which isn't unusual but it was oddly long, like at least 30 seconds. It's not something I would have normally read into as I didn't think there was any possibility of someone I knew being like that but after the comments left here I realize that maybe there is a possibility. As for my thoughts on Jess after this, I'm not sure how I feel, I mean she's great and I adore her but I don't think these thoughts are romantic, especially now that I'm annoyed with her for having not been a supportive friend to me this week.