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Willa, 19 y.o.
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Date: October 10, 2022
Willa, 19 y.o.
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If a patient was telling you this what would you say? There's no way you should be putting up with this crap.
I know people say go to marriage counselling often but I think couples counselling could be a great help here. And it might turn out that to guys are not compatible. And maybe it can help you find a compromise between. Maybe she can learn downhill skiing and you can do that with her. And the next day she can have a spa day or day reading in front of the fire whilst you go cross country skiing.
But definitely no children. Make sure your protection is safe. It always surprises me the people who babytrap. She may want to force you to the next stage. But hopefully she is nothing like that.
Then you need to read the last two sentences OP wrote again. And if you aren't going to believe him about that, why believe him about anything? Then if you still think so, you will have to explain why. Because I'm curious your reasoning.
If you feel this way:
Is it something I should talk to my bf about? I can see it eventually becoming an issue in our relationship, I just don't know when it will be.
Then absolutely. Why wait for a ticking time bomb to go off when you know it will happen?
I am introvert myself, so stuff like this:
We plan these meals for the 2 of us, and then always last minute he tells me it'll be the whole family joining
Needs to be ironed out.
Spontaneous things happen, you need to deal with that. Although, if it is always the spontaneous, that throws introverts for a loop. If you two are going to work, he needs to be capable of understanding and handling that side of you, compromises need to happen. That would be understanding and accepting your partner on a deeper level.
For example (I relate to a degree): My gf gets together with her family on a weekly basis. I spend more time with her family, than I do my own. When you add a FT job, hobbies, my own commitments, a reletionship into the mix, that is a lot already. She would love for me to be at every function, but I simply cannot juggle it without it affecting me, I need what I can handle. I do try and step up on most occasions, but she knows that I can't attend everything… and she accepts/respects that about me. The ability to compromise is what makes us functional.
You need to execute that here. You cannot always be overextending yourself where you're being burnt out regularly. You need to have it done your way on occasion, that's compromise.
Not sure what to do about the whole cooking dinner thing. Personally think, if anyone is to cook dinner for the whole family, that should be your BF as it's his family.
Optimal way to fix this is to have your independence from his family. Can you two hang out at your place?
I get this too:
I just want to get to know my bf more as we've only been dating a couple months and having to do that while in front of his family is nerve wracking.
You two need some privacy. He might not need it.. but for yourself to function in a reletionship, you need the privacy.
Anyways, you two are still fresh to each-other. This would be a good time to add some depth by communicating what's bothering you. You cannot ignore the little things. If you can't work something out and only have conflicts as a result, then this reletionship won't work.
The male entitlement here is enough to make my blood boil. Your brother should be ashamed of himself for his selfishness in trying to make you choose. If he loved you so much, he’d move his wedding so that his only sister didn’t have to choose between supporting him and celebrating a major milestone in her life. And shame on your family for supporting his selfishness and making him think that it’s normal. I’m sorry OP, for what it’s worth, I think you should absolutely walk that stage. Send your brother a gift, tell him you love him, but go an enjoy YOUR day because YOU earned it.
Chad PC gamer sticks it to virgin supermodel for trying to interrupt his gaming time ?
Time for a TRO.
Yeah, I feel that. I have just dealt with so much crap from both of them when things aren't smooth sailing, that getting to enjoy the calmer waters are nice, and the guilt isn't as bad as dealing with them fighting over whatever this round. My parents should have divorced 30 years ago, but at this point I think they are the only people that would put up with them, so I say keep on at this point. Now if only they could just not do their annual or biannual unloading on me or my sister…
He sounds very immature. He’s not yet learned that relationships don’t mean you get to decide how your partner lives their life. This is not how “boundaries” work.
I don't think its weird. It just means the two of you online more in the moment. If the time you are spending together is quality time, I don't see any issues here.
I feel like anniversaries are the one time you can truly show someone how much they mean to you.
my partner shows me this weekly if not daily :\