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Date: October 10, 2022
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Advice from a FM..fwb is her way of keeping you close without completing losing you. In the end it only hurts the both of you unless boundaries are set before hand. This is also a major NO if love and kids were involved
Set healthy boundaries but at the end of the day life is short and temporary and you remember who raised you! So many people forget when they become adults, if it wasn’t for their parents/guardian they wouldn’t have made it to be an adult. Nothing wrong with talking to her about how you really feel and setting boundaries. However, remember you have to honor her and she is a widow so God does say to look after her. She doesn’t need to smother you though, she too needs to find a way to move on and create a life for herself without your father.
All else fails, go to therapy together. I bet that will help.
You don’t want to be paranoid but tbh I think you have enough lets say inconsistencies recently to say your concerns are reasonable. I would drive by and check, fingers crossed the car is there and all is well but its an opportunity to put your worries to bed.
ur totally correct!! and i even confessed and they shared a korean song where the lyrics mentions that “i'll let u call me baby soon” + i legit didn't say no over this cuz at first i was confused at the signs they are showing me- but im sure that they like me the same the moment when i checked the song with the meaning of the lyrics days after. (im so blunt) rn i really struggle with backpedalling gracefully fr
Yeah, honestly you need to have a talk with her about your future, and what future if any she sees with you.
I don’t know why you’re getting so much flak, you’re allowed to change your mind over the course of a few years. There’s even one unhinged commenter accusing you of lying and manipulating her, that’s just crazy shit in an attempt for upvotes. Even the top comments are stupid as shit. It’s perfectly fine to go from “not looking to get married” when first dating someone, to “you’re the one I want to marry” after a few years with them. That’s how most normal healthy relationships progress.
Ask her if her feelings for you have changed (I mean, one would hope that feelings change for the better/deeper over the course of a good relationship), or if you expressing this to her has changed her feelings for you. Ask her what it is about marriage that she doesn’t like, or if it’s just marriage to you. I mean, after an answer/reaction like that, I’d want a solid answer so I don’t feel like I’m wasting time with someone who doesn’t have the same feelings for me. Even then, it would take a lot of reassurance after being vulnerable enough to put that out there for me to not start checking out.
Marriage doesn’t have to be a giant money-hole public spectacle. It can be as small, cheap, and private as you want. You can also put plenty of protections in place for each individual party to separate assets if desired.
So when I hear one partner balk at marriage after a decently long and loving relationship beforehand, I really hear “I love you but not enough to want to be legally bound to you, and not enough to give our relationship legal recognition and protection in the event of major life events or emergencies.”
Doing a fwb when you want a relationship is generally a terrible idea. She made it clear she doesn't want that and it's just going to hurt you to not have what you want.
He just says that he talks about different things to different people and says he doesn’t have issues with me. We had a healthy marriage up until now.