It’s the way it goes sometimes. Honestly, we would be better off if we listened to each other better. She said the sparks gone and you want to know why. She probably doesn’t know why herself. You really need to accept that as a full and complete answer and move on with your life. Don’t put it on hold hoping she comes back. Just keep moving forward and if the two of you circle back to each other down the road, great. If not, at least you weren’t on pause and kept trekking onward.
Nothing you say will make him stop. He is abusive.
Decide if you want a divorce or not. I recommend divorce but I am not you.
If you decide on divorce, DO NOT THREATEN HIM with it or say anything at all about it. Just quietly obtain a divorce attorney and assess your options. In the meantime, use the Grey Rock method with him (or stay with a friend or relative to “help them out”) OR do whatever your attorney suggests.
Develop an exit strategy with your attorney and, if necessary, a domestic violence agency in your area.
Once out of his presence, do not speak to him or go to see him at all. All conversation should be through text or email or through your attorney.
YTA alright and it was clear as day especially when you started talking shit about her degree. Most other comments already put into words why you're ta but that particularly caught my eye
You should talk to your friends parents. This is not okay on any level.
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I consider it cheating when my husband doesn't bring me breakfast in bed… He's a terrible cheater as he has never brought me breakfast in bed .
It’s the way it goes sometimes. Honestly, we would be better off if we listened to each other better. She said the sparks gone and you want to know why. She probably doesn’t know why herself. You really need to accept that as a full and complete answer and move on with your life. Don’t put it on hold hoping she comes back. Just keep moving forward and if the two of you circle back to each other down the road, great. If not, at least you weren’t on pause and kept trekking onward.
Nothing you say will make him stop. He is abusive.
Decide if you want a divorce or not. I recommend divorce but I am not you.
If you decide on divorce, DO NOT THREATEN HIM with it or say anything at all about it. Just quietly obtain a divorce attorney and assess your options. In the meantime, use the Grey Rock method with him (or stay with a friend or relative to “help them out”) OR do whatever your attorney suggests.
Develop an exit strategy with your attorney and, if necessary, a domestic violence agency in your area.
Once out of his presence, do not speak to him or go to see him at all. All conversation should be through text or email or through your attorney.
Please stay safe.
Oh gosh. Then this will really haunt you next year when you've forgotten that you even owned the shirt.
Sounds like she wants people to find it. That would make me more uncomfortable than anything else tbh. I would not validate it with attention.
YTA alright and it was clear as day especially when you started talking shit about her degree. Most other comments already put into words why you're ta but that particularly caught my eye
Get off alcohol mate
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