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So when you do talk to him, he'll just take the abuse further. This isn't something you can just talk through. He knows better, he's not stupid, and he's not a toddler.
Ive said this under a lot of your comments but Im going to say it again
You know him from another mother who knows him You met him whilst you were with your child He says he wants to be a “father” He's trying to rush You've been together for 3 months
These could be nothing, but it also could be a guy that wants to get close to children by being with their mothers. Sometimes him acting like a “great Dad” is not being he sees your child as his. Sometimes it can be wholely more nefarious motivations.
I get why the gf is upset. But, on the other hand there wasn't any intent behind it. I doubt you went out of your way to find a place that would get you so worked up. I assume from your wording the worker was waxing your junk?
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Honestly, the older we get, the less important our birthdays are. I can get you being a bit disappointed, but crying for an hour? That's… a lot.
Plan something fun with your friends. Him being away over your birthday is not the end of the world.
Perfect response, and I’m stealing that cancer analogy. Just sums it up perfectly.
So when you do talk to him, he'll just take the abuse further. This isn't something you can just talk through. He knows better, he's not stupid, and he's not a toddler.
Ive said this under a lot of your comments but Im going to say it again
You know him from another mother who knows him You met him whilst you were with your child He says he wants to be a “father” He's trying to rush You've been together for 3 months
These could be nothing, but it also could be a guy that wants to get close to children by being with their mothers. Sometimes him acting like a “great Dad” is not being he sees your child as his. Sometimes it can be wholely more nefarious motivations.
Keep your wits about you. Always be cautious.
I get why the gf is upset. But, on the other hand there wasn't any intent behind it. I doubt you went out of your way to find a place that would get you so worked up. I assume from your wording the worker was waxing your junk?