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Date: October 11, 2022
I'm not sure why you got downvoted but you're 100% right.
The brother must've been getting horrifically abused himself & has a completely perverted sense of right & wrong when it comes to all things sexual.
It's very common for victims to become perptrators.
He should be in therapy & he should never be left alone with any children.
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For back story, my husband (29m) and I (26f) on-line a couple doors down from my best friend (21f). We are all very close as she is over at our house all of the time. There is no strain between any of us. My husband and I have been together nearly 6 years and married for 1 year.
But we just had a small Christmas gift exchange at my house between my husband, myself, my best friend, and one other mutual friend. We were exchanging gifts and having a great time just hanging out together. My husband and I had quickly wrapped gifts before our friends arrived. He had told me in advance what he had gotten for my best friend and I had seen the things he selected – just a few things from her wish list. No biggie. He had all of her things in one box that I watched him tape up and wrap.
But when my best friend opened my husbands gift, she found the things he had told/shown me as well as sex toys. He had bought her a small vibrator and a wand. He didn’t mention that he got her these gifts at all. I was completely blind sighted. Obviously, we all laughed and she was appreciative as she is recently single. But after everyone left for the night, I felt a little perturbed.
I asked my husband why he gave her sex toys. He stated he overheard us talking recently about how her sex life is lacking since she’s single now. I don’t recall having that conversation with her recently, but I may have just forgotten. He said he was just trying to help. I then asked why he neglected to tell me he got her sex toys. He said he felt uncomfortable about it because he wasn’t sure if it was inappropriate or not. I asked so why did you give them to her anyways? I feel like you had plenty of time to ask me if it was inappropriate it or not. I told him that I felt like he crossed a boundary and he profusely apologized to me. He also asked if I would like him to apologize directly to my best friend. He said he didn’t do it to hurt me and that he didn’t think about how I might react to it.
I’m just not really sure how to feel about any of this. I trust both my husband and best friend entirely. I know there’s nothing between them. But I can’t help but feel a little betrayed. I just felt like it was such a creepy intimate gift to give to someone who is not your wife directly in front of your actual wife. I am at a loss and feeling so weird about it. Do I have him apologize to her? Or would that make thing worse? Do I bring it up to her directly and see if it made her uncomfortable? Do I just let it go and forget about it? What do I do? I’m just feel so strangely about the whole thing.
TLDR: My husband gave my best friend some sex toys for Christmas that he didn’t tell me about. I feel like he crossed boundaries and am not sure how to move forward.
Are you even listening to him?
Slow down, stop overthinking, read what he responded and believe that.
Im new here , my friend said i will get advice here , sorry i have a bad english its not my 1st lenguaje
If you guys can’t work this out on your own better start prepping for the breakup now.
Honestly though she should have given you more notice for this request and you should be able to talk about it without throwing a temper tantrum
Do not make a decision about moving overseas with him this early. Not in 6 months. Not even in a year. This is a HUGE thing to do and will radically alter your life. If it goes bad it can ruin your life. Go slow. Be careful. Take a whole lot of time with this.
My dude, you have chosen to upset yourself. You came up with the crazy scenario, you asked the questions, you are dwelling on the totally reasonable answer.
I guess, congratulations that this is the worst problem in your relationship? Things must be going really well if this is the drama you choose?
It’s gonna be ok. You have to have an honest open conversation with your wife. Are her needs being met? What can you do to improve sex with her? Maybe introduce the idea of non-monogamy.
Tf is wrong with you. If someone wants unprotected sex and doesn’t disclose an STI that’s a damn good reason to break up and even to go to the police if you have proof that she did it on purpose. If it was harmless there would be no Pap smears for it, would there?
You're talking about something that is a choice that partners make together as if it is an innate trait of yours.
Talk to her about opening the relationship. It sounds like you already know that she doesn't want to but it would be far more ethical to talk it through as a possible change to the relationship rather than some weird proclamation.
Also, you already know that she wants children and was willing to forego that for the relationship. Does that seem like a fair choice to make ?
To be clear, I am not suggesting that you should have children you don't want. That would be monstrous. But I think that as an adult in a loving relationship there are times when you have to walk away because you know you can't give your partner what they need and you know that they are too selfless to insist.
He’s a narcissist. They love bomb in the beginning, think you’re the best thing since sliced bread and then the infatuation wanes. Now he needs a new shiny toy to turn his head and mark my words, he already has her in sights, or even multiple hers. It’s not your fault. But 4 marriages should have been major red flags. His need to rush you down the aisle, another major red flag.
Kick him to the kerb, only trauma and heartache await.
Don’t worry about him. No one falls in love faster than a narcissist who has no where to live!.
Just because he asked you questions doesn’t mean you have to answer him. He broke up with you remember? I’ll bet he doesn’t want you to date either right? Hmmmmf!
You need to move out or he has to leave. His presence is hurting you. Avoid conversation. Be polite but distant. He wants to keep you emotionally engaged after kicking you to the curb.