You’re living there for a few months. You’re married to this family for a lot longer. Suck it up for now and it’ll go a long way toward family harmony.
On the one hand, I would let him know. On the other hand, if you can’t get along with the family, it’s a good early sign that you shouldn’t continue as you will be joining that family. Tell him if you care about him because it will help him understand what’s going on in his life. Don’t demand that he do something about it, don’t get back together, but if you really care, I’d say be honest.
I think the issue for him is probably that you weren’t regretful- you say that even if you make a horrible mistake and regret it, what is the point in your partner reminding you of it. But, whether you exaggerated the situation or not, you initially told him to brag about it, as you thought it would make you appear cool. There was no element of regret to your story- that only came after he called you out. Which is probably why he’s upset about it and doubtful to your character. I shouldn’t really have to say it but drunk driving isn’t cool and shouldn’t be used for bragging rights- even if as you described in your post, you weren’t that drunk and felt you were relatively safe. A lesson for the future I guess
The drama will happen when he decides that she's too old for a plushie and throws it out while she's at work. All of course for her own good ~s
You’re living there for a few months. You’re married to this family for a lot longer. Suck it up for now and it’ll go a long way toward family harmony.
On the one hand, I would let him know. On the other hand, if you can’t get along with the family, it’s a good early sign that you shouldn’t continue as you will be joining that family. Tell him if you care about him because it will help him understand what’s going on in his life. Don’t demand that he do something about it, don’t get back together, but if you really care, I’d say be honest.
How do you know?
How do you know he won’t?
Good to know the trolls aren't taking time off for the holidays.
I think you should go stay with your parents until your BF gets out of the hospital.
His brother is a creep, but it sounds like they both like very young vulnerable girls.
I think the issue for him is probably that you weren’t regretful- you say that even if you make a horrible mistake and regret it, what is the point in your partner reminding you of it. But, whether you exaggerated the situation or not, you initially told him to brag about it, as you thought it would make you appear cool. There was no element of regret to your story- that only came after he called you out. Which is probably why he’s upset about it and doubtful to your character. I shouldn’t really have to say it but drunk driving isn’t cool and shouldn’t be used for bragging rights- even if as you described in your post, you weren’t that drunk and felt you were relatively safe. A lesson for the future I guess
Nice save OPs girlfriend.
Now, back to buying expensive gifts OP!
And exchanging three phrases with the guest would have saved him a headache later on that day. C’mon, it’s just respectful to say hi and then leave.
How not?