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Mark and Lexi, 27 y.o.
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Date: October 11, 2022
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idk what are your thoughts?
Firstly, why are you still seeing an ex. He's getting what he primarily wants out of you, which is sex. Once he gets it, he doesn't need to do all that extra stuff and be sweet, charming, etc. You're now his sexual access for the meantime until he starts to meet new girls. My advice is to stop seeing him and move on.
Guy needs THERAPY AND LEARN TO RESPECT BOUNDARIES ?
IF HIS ? IS SO OUT OF CONTROL HE CANNOT RESPONSIBLY RESPECT WHEN A PERSON SAYS “NO”. HE IS NOT READY FOR RELATIONSHIPS EITHER.
HIS GF IS NOT READY FOR RELATIONSHIP. She needs to work on her trauma because even if he RESPECTED HER BOUNDARIES, THE RELATIONSHIP WILL ALWAYS BE ON HER TERMS AND HER RULES. That means no compromise which is UNFAIR.
I'm a rape survivor and THAT SHIT STAYS WITH YOU.
I DON'T CARE HOW MANY TIMES IM GETTING DOWNVOTED
NEITHER OF THEM ARE IN A HEALTHY STATE OF MIND TO HAVE A SUCCESSFUL AND RESPECTFUL RELATIONSHIP.
They should go their separate ways BUT GET THERAPY IMMEDIATELY!!!
I didn’t read your long post. But really, why are you letting her control your thoughts like this?
She’s messing with you. The only way to stop that is for you to block her on everything and go no-contact. It’ll be best for your own mental health. You control yourself. Stop letting her control you.
Imo it’s a massive overreaction. Ending a relationship it is insane to me. If he was messaging the owner of the pictures that would Be different.
Yes; I agree with you. It was a “measurable risk from my part” and odds were against my favor.
Appreciate your understanding and comment.
Plenty of other people already gave you a reality check, I don’t see any need to go into any further detail. Either you deal with your insecurities or you don’t.
I am getting therapy and getting help. Because I don’t feel as much anxiety as I once did when writing these messages. I can pinpoint why I’m upset, and what might’ve triggered it.
The issue is just I’m worried that I’ll never find someone who just lets me be me. It’s nude for me to explain.
That's tough because it's going to impact both of you. Obviously you more than him, but things change a bit for awhile. Was this a decision you made before getting in a relationship with him or recently agreed to?
In his defense, I can see where he would worry for you. I could even see him also becoming attached and struggling to let the baby go too. I think surrogacy is like nursing where not everyone could do it. Not all of us are up to it and sometimes it's nude to wrap our heads around the idea that others wouldn't handle it the same as we would. Perhaps he's having the same issue and would have worried even without your past struggles. He must not see that you'd know better that anyone if you could handle it since you've been through that loss before.
If you haven't talked this out to death, I would continue to try to see each others view. You're going to be getting married and you don't want to start it out with one of you feeling pushed to do or not do something you feel strongly about. Especially if you see yourself being resentful about it 10 years down the line if you decide not to do it to make him happy.
Whether you do or don't do this I hope your friend appreciates you. I can't think of many more selfless things to do for someone.
That can still be arranged, all things are possible.
YOU gotta get it together my man. from the one example you gave, it seems she's always the one opening the door and you're always closing it. she opens communication and you shut it down. she tries to help you strategize and you turn her down. she seems to be doing the right thing but hitting your wall constantly.
you have to expend the energy. i know it's hard, i am the same way. it's fucking exhausting. but engage in these conversations and then go lay down. is your wife not worth it?
“Our conflicts are almost always about her trying to help me get something done, her trying to get reassurance about upcoming plans, or her trying to be understood clearly about an idea or feeling she has. I'm not trying to imply that she's the cause of our problems by picking examples where she wants some reassurance from me.”
your conflicts are when she wants to HELP, when she's looking for COMMUNICATION, or when she wants to make sure she's BEING UNDERSTOOD. she's doing fine…meet her halfway.