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Date: October 12, 2022
dude you really need to touch some grass
I find it weird that you are comfortable with your older brother to date someone 10 years younger than him. But weirded out by your other brother dating the ex.
It's really odd that you don't like his answer. He said why he initially saw you as special. He can't love all of you right away because he didn't know all of you yet.
His answer is totally valid.
As a man I've never been in the exact scenario and would feel very emasculated if I was having my girlfriend pay for the lot. When I was that age I was at university full time and worked about 20 hours a week, and had enough time to socialise outside of that. So, it is doable and something he should have considered and done until now, to be honest
The worrying thing is, what if this is a sign of things to come? Sure, people can change for better or worse but if he has this “understanding” that you are okay with providing for both then that may only escalate things later down the line
You have recently showed him that you are at breaking point but he has gotten used certain things for years now. Honestly, I'm surprised that you haven't reached this point earlier. Not to blame you, of course, you have been supportive up until now. However, his lack of earnings will start to seriously impact you both later on when you start saving for a house and family etc. Just imagine how much money you could have saved, had you not had to pay for his way, too?
Not a big fan of what he said, that he will move away back to his parents so he is not a burden on you. It almost seems like an emotional blackmail, he should have just acknowledged that he was in the wrong, that he saw your point and that he would be finding a job to help ease things for you
Thanks for the frankness. It hurts but I need the blatant truth atm.
I didn't see your original post, but from your comments, you wants to know h9w to stop going crazy until you can leave your abusive partner, as for some reason you can't right now. So I'll answer that.
Treat him like he's 5. For example:
“That was a test, you failed!” “Oh, I'm so sorry honey sometimes you're just too smart for me”
“I need this” “of course you do, sweetie, let me help you with that, you poor thing”
“You should've done this!” “Thanks for pointing that out, honey, I'll keep that in mind for next time”
Etc etc
Then when he's gone, call him a dick and get on with your life.
Basically, stop allowing his words and opinions any weight in your world. He's irrelevant, decide now.
What makes a boyfriend a good boyfriend for you?