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That’s putting it perfectly. I love my mom but need to be able to hold firm to my boundaries and I could see all of them being destroyed if this happens.
Do you have kids?
If not, you should just leave.
You've left quite a bit out of this story, haven't you? If people can hear him yelling outside of your apartment what kind of monster is he?
First, I'm sorry you are going through this.
Before I get to the logistics part of “how”, I want to note here that you are being emotionally, and likely finicially abused. Someone threatening to end their life if you end the relationship is emotional blackmail. It's a tactic of an abuser. You are right, couple's counseling isn't going to help you. But you, my friend, need to get a personal therapist/counselor to help you emotionally heal from the damage done here.
You have worries about what happens if you leave her, but I think you are getting caught up in the emotional concerns, and not the logistical ones. When faced with the end of the relationship, your wife, who has some real impulse control problems and quite possibly an alcohol problem, may lash out in some tough ways both emotionally and logistically.
So, how? Things to do before:
If you haven't already, get yourself a separate bank account that she cannot access. Inform your family/close circle that you can trust about your plan, and that you might need some support. This will also help if she starts lashing out making up crazy stories. Her close circle (be it her family/friends/whatever) might need a very quick heads up as soon as you've had the conversation with her. Identify for yourself some people to contact that she might end up staying with, and reach out to them the moment it is done. Note to them that you are letting them know because you are concerned for her well being and safety, as she's previously made threats on her own life if your relationship were to end.
As to doing it, you can go one or two ways. You can ask her to leave immediately, or you can end the relationship and leave. I'm not sure about your living arrangements (own, rent, who's on the mortgage/lease, etc). If you are worried about your safety and her safety, you may want to plan on leaving for a night or two after having the conversation. Pack with you not just some clothes, but also important documents (birth certificate, social security card, etc), medications, etc. Do not leave anything behind that you wouldn't trust an enemy with. Again, I'm not sure about your living arrangements, but leaving for a day or two and giving her a deadline of when to be out would be fair if you don't think she would have a place to sleep that night. If there are friends/family that would give her a place to sleep that night, do NOT leave. Tell her she needs to leave. The relationship is over. Stay calm, try to avoid being emotional, do not yell. This isn't a discussion about your relationship anymore. You are informing her that the relationship is over. Keep it brief and to the point. “Wife, this is hot to say, but I cannot continue on in this marriage. We've made many efforts to fix our problems, but it is clear that we cannot. I am no longer happy, and do not see a future where we can be together. I'd like you to leave today.”
Also, pack up that to-go bag with documents and the such even if you are asking her to leave. She might refuse. She might throw a fit. She might scream and yell and be unable to continue the conversation. In that case, you need to be ready to leave immediately, grab your bag and go.
This will be one of the hardest things you ever do. It will also be the day you look back at with pride and see it as the day you were able to start the path of moving on and healing. I wish you the best.
Good. She physically and emotionally abused you. Yes, even friends can abuse people. You don't need friends like her.
I lost him at black cat to his golden retriever energy, wtf is that. She probably got overwhelmed.
Not always. Disagree.
Well when you date a kid what do you expect? Someone with the same amount of money and in the same place in life? If you want to date a man maybe stop going after teens.