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Date: October 12, 2022
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He may have BPD. Sounds really familiar. I had a girlfriend who was like this. It's sad because they don't mean to be that way, but you can't save them, and until they get help, go to therapy and learn to keep it from getting to that point, it's pretty much impossible to be in a relationship with them. Main thing, it is not your fault, at all.
Okay OP but you're sorta proving her point with this post. Your bf believed you would have an issue with him adding her as a friend and you are clearly bothered by this. I could understand if maybe she asked him to date her, but it looks like she just wants friendship.
You also shouldn't project your thoughts on your bf “I think he shouldn't hang out with someone who talks badly about me” that's a red flag man. He should be allowed to be friends with whomever and he should be the one to defend the relationship should his friends speak out like that. The reality here though is that she didn't speak badly about your relationship. Sure she shouldn't have suggested breaking up, but you are insecure about him playing with her.
Okay but at the same time, he's super helpful and willing to do things that are not in line with what he says
I don't think I can accept this side of him, but surely talking about it would help? But then if they are as you say core values, I suppose it won't help much?
You can absolutely be “in love.” The problem is that being in love doesn't count for much. It doesn't mean that you belong together, it doesn't mean that you'll never grow tired of each other, it doesn't mean that making big commitments to each other will turn out well.
There are never any guarantees of any of those things, but your odds of success get better with a) more life experience, b) more awareness of who you will be as an adult and what you actually want, and c) more time to learn about your partner and how the two of you work together. Those are all things that come with getting older.
Man I was pressured too. 4 years in. You know what I leaned? I gave into that pressure and didn’t do things in my own time and as soon as I did, got with with pressure to buy a house. Then get married. Now having kids… the pressure never fucking ends, tell everyone who isn’t your gf to STFU, tell your gf you will propose when you feel is right, and then pick your moment.
If you give people control over your life they won’t give it back.
Wow. This is truly what I aspire to in my next marriage. Cheers to you both! Great communication and parenting.
The guy knew me and her dated and she had a moment of honesty and told me everything. Also I didn't literally mean rip a head off yall take things to literally. What I mean like if the kid was alive I could of confronted the situation but now I can't do a single thing about it and it's eating me alive. It's like his one last HA Fuck you you can't do shit about it, peace✌️
Just tell him it’s PIV or u walk
He doesn’t understand my desire to have something of my own and says it’s a sign I don’t trust him and he doesn’t want to be with someone who doesn’t fully trust him.
You're young. Take your power back and let him go manipulate someone else. And you go find someone who isn't a walking red flag.
I do have to say that if after college you need to do a year long distance? break up!