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That's basically how I feel. She is only nice to me personally when she wants something. Same with her mom. She even tried to have her mom stay here when she got evicted.
What if it is? Not everything is fraught with deep meaning & intent. Sometimes a “like” is just “hey, nice photo” or even more random- I have liked portraits just because there was a book on the desk that I loved.
Depending on where you take things, if you commit to her you commit to her family. Maybe not all in but if she has relations you will never get away with having no relationship. That does t support her and is unrealistic. And there you have it. You have a choice.
Personally, I can’t imagine caring that much about my partner’s relatives. However if it’s that important to him, you can ask your parents if they’d be open to meeting him without being engaged. Just because it’s tradition doesn’t mean it’s the only way.
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That's basically how I feel. She is only nice to me personally when she wants something. Same with her mom. She even tried to have her mom stay here when she got evicted.
What if it is? Not everything is fraught with deep meaning & intent. Sometimes a “like” is just “hey, nice photo” or even more random- I have liked portraits just because there was a book on the desk that I loved.
You don’t. You wish her well and move on.
Depending on where you take things, if you commit to her you commit to her family. Maybe not all in but if she has relations you will never get away with having no relationship. That does t support her and is unrealistic. And there you have it. You have a choice.
You break up with him. He can be with his ideal woman. You need to be you. Don’t change yourself for him
Yep! Sorry I don’t have a magic other solution. Just encouraging you to escape.
It doesn’t sound like you’re ready for a serious relationship with a woman who has a child.
The kid deserves stability, not someone who comes and goes from their life because they’re waffling about wasted youth or [insert other hangups here].
I’d stick to my decision if I were you.
Personally, I can’t imagine caring that much about my partner’s relatives. However if it’s that important to him, you can ask your parents if they’d be open to meeting him without being engaged. Just because it’s tradition doesn’t mean it’s the only way.