Most definitely. I don’t think they will though. I think they want him and myself want him to focus on getting better but that’s not my concern anymore
Like others are saying, she probably wouldn’t have been forthcoming about the results. I’m interested to hear how she asked you about it since. If it’s really out of the blue, then she might probably think you were the one that was doing the cheating. How did she bring it up?
Yeah you are right I should stay out of it. FWIW I really do consider both of them my friends equally. Perhaps Sally even more so as she comes live! to play games with the group more frequently than Jeff does.
I think maybe the most that I will do is the next time she starts getting on him and we aren't all about to head home anyways ill just ask and see if she wants to go to on a walk. It would defuse the situation in the house, but I won't bring up anything.
I know I'm over reaching but isn't this some form of abuse? YOU ARE STRAIGHT & SHE KNOWS YOU ARE ONLY ATTRACTED TO FEMALES BORN FEMALE & yet she lied to and led you to believe she was one. It's not transphobic to have sexual preferences. & now she's hounding your family & friends into forcing you to date her? I'm sorry you had to go thru this and I'm sorry for her too but her lies brought y'all here! She totally removed your choice in the matter which makes it feel wrong to me and again I'm sorry for the entire situation & yes you're permitted and 100% right to feel exactly how you feel
I understand the essence of what you’re saying, that i jumped the gun. And i may have, but like the other response on your comment, regardless if Judas was the main culprit, she crossed a clear personal boundary telling someone else about my stuff. As trustworthy as Eric is, if she had a vaginal acidity problem and i told him, she would be rightfully upset. There are things that shouldnt be out into the ether, especially when the person you tell it to cant handle themselves. As i said in a previous response, i do believe she deserves a discussion when i get back, and i did apologize to her over text for not asking her what her POV was. But yes i do agree i can be dumb sometimes. Thats why im posting my problem on the internet for help haha
One option may be to add some boundaries of your own – like not taking you're pants off if you're not getting into bed.
Most definitely. I don’t think they will though. I think they want him and myself want him to focus on getting better but that’s not my concern anymore
Like others are saying, she probably wouldn’t have been forthcoming about the results. I’m interested to hear how she asked you about it since. If it’s really out of the blue, then she might probably think you were the one that was doing the cheating. How did she bring it up?
She wanted him He didn't want her So she came back to OP This isn't love …
Op needs to divorce
Dude you knew what the comments were going to say before you wrote this post.
Yeah you are right I should stay out of it. FWIW I really do consider both of them my friends equally. Perhaps Sally even more so as she comes live! to play games with the group more frequently than Jeff does.
I think maybe the most that I will do is the next time she starts getting on him and we aren't all about to head home anyways ill just ask and see if she wants to go to on a walk. It would defuse the situation in the house, but I won't bring up anything.
I know I'm over reaching but isn't this some form of abuse? YOU ARE STRAIGHT & SHE KNOWS YOU ARE ONLY ATTRACTED TO FEMALES BORN FEMALE & yet she lied to and led you to believe she was one. It's not transphobic to have sexual preferences. & now she's hounding your family & friends into forcing you to date her? I'm sorry you had to go thru this and I'm sorry for her too but her lies brought y'all here! She totally removed your choice in the matter which makes it feel wrong to me and again I'm sorry for the entire situation & yes you're permitted and 100% right to feel exactly how you feel
I understand the essence of what you’re saying, that i jumped the gun. And i may have, but like the other response on your comment, regardless if Judas was the main culprit, she crossed a clear personal boundary telling someone else about my stuff. As trustworthy as Eric is, if she had a vaginal acidity problem and i told him, she would be rightfully upset. There are things that shouldnt be out into the ether, especially when the person you tell it to cant handle themselves. As i said in a previous response, i do believe she deserves a discussion when i get back, and i did apologize to her over text for not asking her what her POV was. But yes i do agree i can be dumb sometimes. Thats why im posting my problem on the internet for help haha