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Date: October 13, 2022
Bro dip, sounds like stress leave bro.
I grew up with a narcissist mother who abused me, so I understand your fear. I truly do.
I can never trust what my mother says or does. She terrifies me. She ruined me. I have a fuckton of issues, both mental and physical, from her abuse. Personally, if I found out my partner had NPD, I'd likely dump them in a heartbeat. I'm probably an asshole for saying that, but I get where you're coming from.
That being said, you need to calm down. You talk about divorce and how he's a monster (though apparently he wasn't until he told you despite his behavior not having been changed) and that you need to keep your children away from him. Jesus Christ, lady. I'll admit, I'm “NPD-phobic” and I need to work through that, but your husband is mentally ill, not a monster.
Monsters are made through their actions. It's not my mother's fault that she's sick. It's her fault for abusing me. Your husband (as far as we know) hasn't done monstrous things. According to your comment, he lies constantly, and him withholding his diagnosis is a huge problem. But to tear apart your family over just a diagnosis is selfish.
Your kids will think Mom went crazy. They'll resent you for tearing them away from their dad. Divorce is nude for kids. Obviously, if he starts being abusive, then leaving is the better option, but if you divorce your husband on what's basically a whim, you'll be throwing your children's mental well-being down the toilet.
There are issues in your marriage, but this isn't how you fix them. Can you sit in on his therapy appointment? Couple's counseling? Again, I don't like people with NPD, but Jesus. The worst thing he's done is hid his diagnosis. He could've been worried you'd divorce him.
It's always hot to see when you're in the middle of it. Oftentimes you're completely blind to it. Been there myself sadly.
It can be naked to both understand and accept because you would never treat others like that, so how can someone who supposedly loves you be that horrid?
So you downplay their behaviour and make up excuses. At least until you can't pretend anymore.
Not everyone is good at starting conversations or they may worry about interrupting you or have some anxiety etc etc loads of reasons why
Its only an issue if you make it one
She replies enthusiastically so just keep talking to her and stop worrying about this
This doesn't sound like an autism fetish to me.
I am also on the spectrum My gf also watched attorney woo It helped her understand that some of the things I do are just part of my condition That understanding helped her appreciate me more
Ohhh I didn't know that damn how do I stop seeking attention yeah I'm doing it subconsciously I don't know why
You said she's sus for not chatting you much during her lunch breaks… some people just want to decompress and chill during that time, her not messaging you “as much” isn't a red flag at all and the fact you see it as a flag is the concerning part.
Plus you're sidestepping the posting photos of your gf on the internet without her consent part. Which is creep behavior and an invasion of her privacy, even with the faces censored and it deleting in a week.
Also it's embarrassing when people go on these forums to lap up validation for their immature behavior and lash out at people criticizing them. You know, like you calling another user a hoe when she said her gf didn't mind her being close with friends.
this is like something you see in a movie when you're in your 20s and think “ha. that's humorous”. it's not something normal people who aren't psychos do in real life…
I don’t think reposting this is helping you out with spreading your message. People aren’t one dimensional, they are complicated.
Besides, I don’t want to waste money going overseas to meet someone that may or may not respect where I come from.
She won't care and will take it for what it is, an absent minded, well meaning mistake
Yes i was also referring to your ex. And it’s not disrespectful.
You have already hurt her.
Why do I see all these stories of guys of freaking out and chasing the what if’s and then cheating within six months of their wedding? Just end it if you can’t handle it. Quit using her as a placeholder because you can’t be alone for a short time.