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Date: October 15, 2022
Besides cheap thrills and deviousness (as far as I know, he tried to convince me I was a narcissist for being health-oriented once), he marks the rest.
Because he doesn't care about you; he just wants a warm body to fuck, and you keep being the one who's available.
Don't be that person anymore; you're acting like a doormat. I suspect you don't feel good about yourself, do you?
This may be less about fear of change and more about fear of commitment. This may be as enmeshed as he sees this relationship getting.
At this point he would be in jail or divorced , not asking for advice , so stop victimizing her
It is very hot to stay attached to somebody that puts no effort into a relationship. I noticed sometimes guys do that and they almost use that time in there to get over you so by the time that you’re not talking anymore they’re completely over the relationship and move on. Because they’ve been breaking up slowly over a period of months. You can do better.
My now husband of over 14 years (21 together) was exactly like this. I just gave up on the idea we would ever get married and got pregnant (he agreed he wanted kids). We bought a house and everything too. Then when I was about 7 months pregnant, he told me he had an early Christmas gift for me (it was a week before Xmas). Turns out it was a calendar and when I flipped to that day, it said happy anniversary. He was on one knee. When he asked me to marry him and I said yes, he then told me that I needed to get ready because the wedding was in 2 hours. He had already set everything up. It was awesome. We told our families by making them watch a YouTube video. One year later, we had a wedding reenactment and reception for our anniversary.
More therapy.
It's also questionable if she even wanted to be with OP. Arranged marriage yuck.
So taking some time is okay. Keep communicating about how your feeling while you process the information. It’s a big thing to think over. They must have been very scared to share that information. Sometimes it’s a safety issue, the default is to keep it a secret because it can lead to violence. Not that you would be violent, but when you’re getting into a relationship, you build the trust.
There are ways to be sexual together that can happen with toys. Someone mentioned a strap on for your partner. It may help them with their own journey as well. In this case talking with your partner is important. You both need to be comfortable to move forward. You sound like you care for them very much, I hope you can both be happy. If that means breaking up, just be honest with yourself and them about your reasons.