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Getting a gift for someone is not “too much of a commitment”. It just sounds like he’s scared or not ready, either way, talk to him and be honest about what it makes you think…maybe he’ll explain himself better.
Yeah kinda sketchy and disrespectful.
Her comment about if she would date him, she didn't say she would over you just that she would if you guys were not together right? If she would break up with you to date him walk.
This is a situation where she should have been 99% honest. No reason for her to tell you she would date him.
There's no reason to bring it up if there isn't someone she has an active desire to sleep with, assuming she hasn't already.
He says we need to talk about them until they are resolved but I don't know how that is supposed to happen. If something happened 10 years ago & I have apologized, what else is needed?
This is an issue that comes up in a lot of relationships. Apologising without accepting responsibility and knowing what you've done wrong makes your partner feel that their feelings are invalid and usually leads to that same problem coming up again and again.
On the other hand, I understand that if you have talked about these issues in detail before, accepted responsibility and apologised, I'm not surprised that you feel he's just using it as a figurative stick to beat you with.
Having read your post, I'm getting the impression you're keeping the “issues” deliberately vague so we can't determine who's right or wrong and I also suspect that you want a fresh slate because you were in the wrong in a lot of these scenarios and you want them forgotten about so you no longer have to deal with the guilt.
Whatever the case, you're free to walk away from an unhappy marriage.
When couples who have kids part, for the emotional and mental benefit of the kids it is good they have a good co parenting relationship. They put the welfare of the kids before themselves and are decent human beings to one another.
Well done to and your ex for giving them that. You are both good people ?
You have kids and have been in each other's lives for over 20yrs, just because the children are older doesn't mean there isn't a bond and maybe friendship from successfully raising 3 kids together. Even co workers banter when talking about work and even co workers have respect and show appreciation to eachother, and, even co workers after working together for over 20yrs have a kind of friendship.
I know you don't want to upset your wife but what she's asking of you is unreasonable. You need to let her know that that (kids and ex), is your busines and unless she suspects you're being unfaithful, given ex money, or hanging out with ex all the time, it is none of her business. You have given her no reason to doubt you and you've never been unfaithful, but just because the youngest is 16, that doesn't mean you still don't need to co parent and you don't need ex in your life as long as the kids are in your life.
I'm friends with my ex's and my ex's ex's. If nothing shitty happened there is no reason to not be grown ups, respect one another, and, if we're fun to hang out with, have friendships.
Your relationships are yours, not your wives. Don't ruin them because she's being unreasonable.
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LDR's are a real challenge and usually don't work very well. This one sounds fishy to me. What's the point of limiting yourself to a nonexistent social life if the LDR is making you unhappy? It seems time to move on.
From the sounds of it, you haven't reached the point of no return. It sounds like they're still interested in the friendship but just not up to socializing yet. Don't take it too personally, just remember that waiting and being silent is the nicest thing you can do for your friend right now. Hopefully they'll start feeling better soon and reach out. Until then just focus on your hobbies or whatever little things can bring you joy.