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a relationship should never be your main focus at 20. that’s what my current boyfriend and i both believe, and why we have worked out so far. if your boyfriend is in it for the long run, he’ll view your schooling as securing his future as well, and be less threatened by it. if you are his main focus right now, but he is not yours, that is his problem for not keeping busy enough and having his own ambitions. love feels great, and i understand being obsessed with a person and wanting to spend all your time with them but that breeds codependency and resentment. it sounds like you’re bending over backwards to fill his cup when he should have other hobbies/interests/activities so your relationship isn’t so unbalanced. you and your schedule are not causing this strain, his inability to accept and accommodate your schedule and keep himself busy when you’re not available is.
Oh thank God for the edit. Get away from her. Study abroad. Make new friends. And please please please see a therapist…you've been groomed, and because of her manipulation you probably have some very unhealthy understanding of relationships.
Look you all fucked up. End the FWB and when you hang out be cordial. I had to do this with a cheating ex for over a year st uni. Ultimately she feels guilty and its up to you if you want to move past it.If you still have feelings for him in a couple of weeks try asking him out in a serious way.
Get a new FWB and make sure this one isnt part of your friend group. Ideally find a guy who is leaving the country in the near future.
This response is so demeaning and judgemental. OP said she knew the fwb wasn’t moving anywhere romantic and she was happy with it. It’s totally natural for a friendship to evolve to more. Let OP have her fun!
Conversely, it’s a positive her friend brought it to her attention – I assume she apologised if she feels “guilty”. That of course doesn’t make it right but think OP and her can talk through things. OP, the obvious question is if there’s romantic feelings between your friend and fwb?
Clearly you’re not comfortable sleeping with him now so the hooking up has reached it’s natural end. Tell the fwb you know and ask for some space if you need it before hanging out as friends. Same goes for your friend. I wouldn’t be afraid to express what you did here – you knew it was casual but the fact two friends hooked up stings. See what they say. Talk through it.
Maybe she was already talking to her new match at that point? A lot of people fall off the radar when they find another person.
It's truly sucky, although you can't really force a person to behave in a positive or honorable way.
Incoming post about “My bf is cheap and I broke up bc he sucks” with resounding “yasss queen you deserve everything bc you are a goddess!” reactions ?
She actually was on birth control, thanks for condescending though.
The thing is her mood stabilizers have fixed the rage, but there's also no passion left in her, for me at least. And I'm having trouble finding reasons to love her anymore.
He's a “perfect person” except for the minor flaw of constantly shitting himself and refusing to acknowledge it or clean himself.
I'd say we define “perfect” differently.
Honestly, I hope your mom has found someone who makes her happy.
No you are not obligated to tell him everything you’ve ever done. That would be silly. Yeah this was a big deal but you have grown and changed and would never do anything like that again. You were clearly having some sort of mental health crisis because there would have been other ways to deal with it and you went the false rape claim route instead. But you were young and ill and when people have mental health issues, they sometimes do things they wouldn’t have otherwise.
If I were him tho, I would be a bit concerned if I found out. Knowing you have made false claims in the past would put me on edge for sure, like would you do it again if you weren’t getting the attention or help you need? Would he be at risk? Would you lie over a domestic issue if it ever came down to it? Those are the things I’d be thinking if I were him.
1) if you don't love your boyfriend anymore then you need to break up with him.
2) why would it be awkward for you to mention him? He asks if you have plans and you say yeah you're grabbing dinner with your boyfriend. I'm assuming you online with your boyfriend, how have you not mentioned him before?
3) what kind of posts does he like that makes you think he's not gay? And even if you think he's gay, then you have a crush on a gay guy? Idk. Break up with your boyfriend and then go about figuring the rest out.
Why are you still with someone who cheated on you so quickly?
Nothing else you posted is more important than you ending a bad relationship with a man who doesn't respect you, lied to you and endanger your health.
She's not the problem in your life. He is.
He didn't forget. But even if he did, he was comfortable having sex with your passed out body. There is no way he thought an unmoving body was into it.
Shit happens.
Also, the way you wrote this sounds like a rough draft for a shitty erotica.
I agree. Wish that was somehow possible to transfer.
I consider it amazing because our relationship is great and more often than not he makes sure I’m good. I left my ex husband two years ago and I experienced abuse in that relationship so I’m still learning how to express myself and that my feelings are valid.
You already got feedback. He told you he wasn't feeling anything other than platonic friendship.
Don't be that clingy person that can't take rejection. He didn't ghost you, he was honest and up front. Learn to appreciate that.