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Room for live sex video chat JessEvans
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Birth Date: 1994-01-28
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Date: October 16, 2022
Hey OP. Your wife sounds a lot like my son’s mother. We spent 3 years together total. She was never diagnosed with anything but she decided for herself she was sick with 5 diseases. Either way, she spent an awful lot of time portraying herself as sick to avoid working, helping around the house, and more. I was left to do all the working and house work, as well as be present for my son and care for his cloth diapers. Honestly I did nearly everything as if this woman couldn’t move.
She also used to call me abusive. It was abusive for me to not allow her to spend hundreds per month on special hair care and instead pay down the bills. It was abusive for me to make her food from Pinterest she sent me and have it not come out perfectly. Never good enough. It was abusive for me to go to the gym at all, even though it was down the street and only went for 30 mins before I stopped going. It was abusive for me to ask her if she needed anything, for me to sleep at night through some (not all) of my son’s waking up (she breast fed and never pumped, so I was largely useless in this time anyways), for me to work long hours to provide, for me to have friends, etc. I can go on forever, man.
Long story less long, you need to free yourself from her. You’re going to live this life being criticized heavily from someone who is highly dependent upon you. Someone who you help out so much should absolutely not be so mean to you and be telling you so many hurtful things. I’m deeply sorry she treats you this way. If your finances are so bad and you’re still trying to treat her well by helping and doing things for her, like that bolognese situation, it is such a hurtful and cruel thing for her to be SO critical of your every move. I don’t understand how someone who’s your partner in life can be so mean.
Your behavior wasn’t out of line and the only abuse here appears to be her emotional abuse and neglect of you.
If I were your irl friend, I’d urge you to get yourself in order and begin planning your separation. This is incredibly unhealthy for you to online this way.
I’m hoping you’re in your early 20’s and are working to overcome your insecurities. Cause I get why you feel this way, younger me likely would have as well. But if you’re older, definitely would want you to take a more proactive approach to getting rid of this insecurity.
You coming to get her probably would have been the best situation, but more so she can recover properly in the morning, not have to worry about leaving anywhere and being able to sleep in an actual bed so she can be well rested.
As far as your insecurity goes, she slept on the couch, you don’t have anything to worry about, just get more comfortable and learn to trust your partner more.
Rule of thumb that I’ve used myself and have heard other women echo for dating younger men when you’re 30+ is that “you must be at least 25yo to ride this ride”. The older-woman-younger-man thing is a classic for a reason it works in a lot of ways, for fun or longevity, in ways the reverse just never could. BUT…below 25 is such a vastly different phase of life, the likelyhood it’s either going to feel predatory (eww) or parental (eww) is just way too high. Basically inevitable. No matter how mature, smart, responsible, or accomplished you are…it doesn’t change that you haven’t walked the earth in adult shoes for enough years to be viable for someone over 30.
girl this is literally a SERIOUS CRIME, he is abusive and u need to get somewhere safer asap
It likely has nothing to do with still having feelings for her ex. I had a similar reaction when my ex, who told me 2.5 years wasn't long enough to know if you want to marry someone, proposed after like 10 months to his now wife. It's a feeling of not being good enough, not even for him, but just feeling like you're not good enough to marry.
Of course, I'm very happy things worked out the way they did. I'm happily married to my husband, and I hope my ex is happy with his wife. But I couldn't help but feel very hurt at the time.
This has all the making of mom slept with one of your daddy’s friends and doesn’t want him to find out the truth. If it was some random she met at a bar, she’d say that. He already knows she cheated so nothing to hide. However, if it’s someone he knew or is related to…that’s an extra layer of wrong.
She won't be destroyed – she has a husband. Just be honest with her, walk away and then block her.
Move on to someone who actually loves you/respects you and happiness.
Don't set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm. I too was the sole emotional support for a relative who lurched from one dumpster fire to the next. I finally had to create some space when the one time I did open up to her, she suggested that I journal it instead. It's one way traffic only with some people. Take the next Exit and don't look back.
Unapologetic straight man opinion here:
He met you while you had the kind of waist that apears on clothes catalogues (50kg at 1,57 mts) and you gained 9kg wich at your height and previous weight changes a lot how your body looks and feels, you most likely had a really flat stomach and went to average Jane.
While you are still in a healthy weight, he has no obligation to find it apealling.
You seem to care more about anal sex than you do the fact your partner has opened up about something traumatic to her and was vulnerable with you.
The amount of red flags in your post is alarming and you don't see them for what they are you are young and have time no rush to get married break up and work on your grind establish a good career and savings and keep Jr in your pants if you do have sex always ware protection that you provide and dispose of and watch YT channels like strong successful male to learn the red flags in relationships
She probably didn’t. She was curious about sex and proactively learned some things to keep you and her happy. You said yourself that your sex like was pretty mediocre so maybe she felt the same and thought it was her. This could be a good opportunity to try some things yourself and polish up on your own abilities too. Practice makes perfect.