I had a vasectomy it’s no picnic phantom pains for 12 months where I thought a ghost kicked me in the balls. What about when he’s 50 and leaves you for his personal trainer who wants kids?
There isn’t a single good reason for him to marry you and it’s unlikely he ever will
You’ve been pushing this man non stop for a decade and so far he’s stuck to his guns, have you considered just having a life together that does t involve a business contract that he doesn’t want to sign?
It’s more likely you’ll end up pushing him away and having to restart this process all over again with another man who’s also smart enough not to get married
Thanks for the response. Just to clarify, when I say I am not one to call every day when I'm away, I still text her every day and send her pictures from whatever is happening in my life. There are just days when I don't have energy for a full call, or often times I just like to stay in the moment if I'm with family or on a vacation, etc. I do a good job of texting, but I think she prefers calls.
And I think I worded the “week of this” wrong. We don't do that for weeks on end. It'll happen maybe 2 times a week and then we'll get dinner some nights and go to brunch on the weekends, or cook together and watch something, or something of that sort. Maybe that still reflects that I am not doing enough, but I wanted to clarify because I think I misspoke.
Even in the days I don't want to hang out, I always text her and keep her updated about my life. That seems to work for me, but not for her.
Not this shit again ?
It's fixable with time and communication
I had a vasectomy it’s no picnic phantom pains for 12 months where I thought a ghost kicked me in the balls. What about when he’s 50 and leaves you for his personal trainer who wants kids?
There isn’t a single good reason for him to marry you and it’s unlikely he ever will
You’ve been pushing this man non stop for a decade and so far he’s stuck to his guns, have you considered just having a life together that does t involve a business contract that he doesn’t want to sign?
It’s more likely you’ll end up pushing him away and having to restart this process all over again with another man who’s also smart enough not to get married
So you cheated too during the start of the relationship?
That just means he wants permission to fuck someone else.
Thanks for the response. Just to clarify, when I say I am not one to call every day when I'm away, I still text her every day and send her pictures from whatever is happening in my life. There are just days when I don't have energy for a full call, or often times I just like to stay in the moment if I'm with family or on a vacation, etc. I do a good job of texting, but I think she prefers calls.
And I think I worded the “week of this” wrong. We don't do that for weeks on end. It'll happen maybe 2 times a week and then we'll get dinner some nights and go to brunch on the weekends, or cook together and watch something, or something of that sort. Maybe that still reflects that I am not doing enough, but I wanted to clarify because I think I misspoke.
Even in the days I don't want to hang out, I always text her and keep her updated about my life. That seems to work for me, but not for her.
you are being unreasonable
these are not “boundaries” it is control, jealousy and immaturity