Please, for the love of god don’t pee in the shower. My ex did that and the shower stank of old pee smell for months despite cleaning over and over, using all cleaning products. The toilet is literally meant for that, and it’s right next to it.
Yeah people don't realize effective speech therapy is. Is your son a good reader? It was always by far my strongest subject due to the language skills from therapy.
Yep. At first I thought he’d have a point if their sex life was dead and she was shutting him down. In that case I can see buying a vibrator as a blow, “I don’t want to have sex with you but I’ll get a toy.”
But that’s not the case. She’s trying to keep up a sex life and he’s shutting her down. He has no reason to be upset about a vibe, even if she WAS using it.
He’s just not happy, either for a reason or maybe just a vague unhappiness, and he wants to pin it all on her.
I'm literally viewing this off my experience. Me, a dude, fearing this connection was made with her like it was for me. How is taking my view and seeing it across gender misogynistic.
I should have never posted this on reddit. You people are gonna keep making this some kind of patricidal issue when the first thing I said was a personal experience that gave me a fear somebody else would do the same.
Wow bud, you're way worse than a 21 year old kid, at least he's have an excuse for being so immature and clueless. You are behaving horribly to your gf. The fact you would remain friends with anyone that talked about her with such disdain shows how little you respect her. Please let her go find someone who will actually treat her well
Your mom is right. He is NOT your responsibility. He has a family, you are not his family, you are the girl he chose to betray. Wash your hands of this and move on.
Nope. It sounds like you are a nice person that sometimes struggles with boundaries. Pretty normal really. You aren't doing anything wrong that I can see!
I’m just reading the rest of the comments now. There’s some excellent and practical advice here! I hope you’re ok. You deserve so much better; and you will find it.
Yeah, OP, I’m really worried he’s just using you. Ask him to be your boyfriend. Tell him you want to introduce him to your friends. Ask to meet his. Invite him out on dates. Do not give him that computer.
My husband is 6’5 260, i’m 5’2 and 140. In 14 years he has never hurt me even by accident.
If your husband is not doing this on purpose, then he is careless.
Go now and see him. Love him. Hug him.
Please, for the love of god don’t pee in the shower. My ex did that and the shower stank of old pee smell for months despite cleaning over and over, using all cleaning products. The toilet is literally meant for that, and it’s right next to it.
Yeah people don't realize effective speech therapy is. Is your son a good reader? It was always by far my strongest subject due to the language skills from therapy.
Yep. At first I thought he’d have a point if their sex life was dead and she was shutting him down. In that case I can see buying a vibrator as a blow, “I don’t want to have sex with you but I’ll get a toy.”
But that’s not the case. She’s trying to keep up a sex life and he’s shutting her down. He has no reason to be upset about a vibe, even if she WAS using it.
He’s just not happy, either for a reason or maybe just a vague unhappiness, and he wants to pin it all on her.
I'm literally viewing this off my experience. Me, a dude, fearing this connection was made with her like it was for me. How is taking my view and seeing it across gender misogynistic.
I should have never posted this on reddit. You people are gonna keep making this some kind of patricidal issue when the first thing I said was a personal experience that gave me a fear somebody else would do the same.
Wow bud, you're way worse than a 21 year old kid, at least he's have an excuse for being so immature and clueless. You are behaving horribly to your gf. The fact you would remain friends with anyone that talked about her with such disdain shows how little you respect her. Please let her go find someone who will actually treat her well
Messaged you
Yeah, if I wasn't sure this guy is a piece of sh*t after this post, I definitely am after seeing this previouso one.
Your mom is right. He is NOT your responsibility. He has a family, you are not his family, you are the girl he chose to betray. Wash your hands of this and move on.
Yes, except on Tuesdays.
Nope. It sounds like you are a nice person that sometimes struggles with boundaries. Pretty normal really. You aren't doing anything wrong that I can see!
Bro that is a fucked up thing to do. It lied to you. How can you even believe anything else they say to you.
Fuck that be out and lesson learned for him her whatever
I dunno. Do you LIKE dating a misogynist?
I’m just reading the rest of the comments now. There’s some excellent and practical advice here! I hope you’re ok. You deserve so much better; and you will find it.
I gather he didn't like his previous job very much!!!
But why?
If my wife was doing what you are doing I would leave her. You got yourself a nice emotional affair partner there.
He’s trickle truthing her 100%. It doesn’t add up because he’s not revealing the entire situation yet (or its severity, I imagine)
No!he will just be nice for a little while. Then he will go back to the old ways. Don't trust him!please leave yourself free of controlling man .
Why even rent a hotel in the first place? Nothing good comes that action but you leaving.
Yeah, OP, I’m really worried he’s just using you. Ask him to be your boyfriend. Tell him you want to introduce him to your friends. Ask to meet his. Invite him out on dates. Do not give him that computer.
That's true. What he is saying is a very matter and proven false could lead to him being sacked. When is she coming back?
OP, people change. Lots of bad people manage to change their ways.
I think you should hear him out and give him another chance.
You never know what you have until its gone.
Bruh just be single. Save yaself the stress