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Date: October 16, 2022
Deep Throat / Roll the dice! / Have you already added me to favorites? / Snapchat Discount only this week [90 tokens remaining]
I’ll flirt with you.
Yes you both need some serious counseling to help you decide if this is worth salvaging or not.
I've talked about my college experience a few times, but I think it's relevant here as well. My (now wife) and I also started dating while we were both seniors in high school. I ended up moving away to go to college and she stayed home and went to community college.
The LDR didn't work well. I needed more affirmation than the LDR afforded, and I was so touch starved after a few months that I was just always irritable. Plus, I wanted to branch out and meet new people and do new things, but my GF was at home doing the same stuff she had done in high school and constantly calling/texting me. I started to feel like she was holding me back.
We had a really crappy on-again-off-again relationship for three years. I resented her a lot and treated her like garbage. I broke up with her so I could sleep with another woman, then a few weeks later got back with her and didn't tell her about it right away. When she found out we broke up again…
Long story short, it was bad. Frankly, the only reason we're married now is because we broke up after I moved home and spent a good bit of time apart. We developed separately, which we both needed, and then after some time, during which we both had other relationships, we decided to try again.
My advice from my experience: your GF treated you like crap here, and is certainly in the wrong for not communicating better, but you're both young and that's kind of expected unfortunately. You're likely in a lot of pain, and that's understandable. Take the time you need to grieve this relationship, then move on. Believe it or not, you're much better off breaking up early than stringing the relationship along for a few years and almost hating each other by the end of it.
you, her, and your roommate are all garbage people.
It sounds like you have a fundamental incompatibility. You was someone who is present and helps set up and is as high strung as you are while he is a child. Find someone more mature and also work on getting out of your family's house.
Why would it be if im willing to have them 50 50
Well yeah that night be very helpful, I think I'm gonna do that. Thank you very much for your advices, appreciate it a lot!!
Cheating can’t be a mistake, it’s not like she stumbled and landed on his dick. It was a shitty decision that she might even regret, but that’s true for people in prison as well, so she deserves to be dumped. You’re both very young as well and I doubt you’ll even remember each other in a year or two. Just move on buddy.
As others have suggested, his work ethic appears to suck.
However I don't want to assume, because this is an issue my partner and I had and guess what, turns out it was ADHD all along and we are both managing just fine now that we know not to go for jobs that are 100% going to be a total stress zone.
Has he ever been evaluated for things like ADHD or ASD?
Maybe he's just being polite, you're reaching.
Your feelings are valid and your decision to break up is totally understandable. No need to feel bad.
…Just dump him, ffs. The whole list can be your reason why.
If you're both comfortable being flirty people then that doesn't need to be an issue. It's your relationship and your boundary to set.
A lot of people would be against it which is why I personally view that one as a red flag.
Jesus. 8 months in and already 'WE'RE rich.' that is some major entitlement your money.
Sure but you can always compare yourself to a well endowed person who’d know exactly what to do and fall short of comparing yourself to that
It's not your job to change to find him more attractive. You're 21. Learn this lesson now.
It's been 8 months.
This is not how it is supposed to be 8 months in. You've discovered he's not for you given his personality and you two fighting.
Why isn't he tasked with having to do anything, why is it on you? Is HE seeking to fix things or does he just try and bang?
No. Not your circus, not your monkeys. Mind your own business. You don't know what drama may be unleashed onto YOU for involving yourself.