Very true. Let’s just say if you’re a grown man around my partner’s baby sister (teenager) don’t hit on her or you risk my queen’s wrath and it’s not pretty. No no. Learned that last year on Valentine’s Day with a surprise gone wrong (her bestie’s cousin delivered her presents and was waiting for her with her sister while shooting a vid of it for me and let’s just say next time he’ll make sure baby sister goes inside next time).
If she is comfortable doing that to a man, they know each other. Women don’t go around air kissing strange men. He saw it and is lying. Does he go to the gym alone?
I would let this go for now since there is no other context. However it a good time to Have a discussion about boundaries. Tell him, it looks like there is a disparity in your definition of boundaries. If so then ask him if in a situation that just happened should you not be upset? The fact that she did it in front of you is brash. Is this a boundary for you but not for him? If so the. You need to get a better understanding of his definition of boundaries and change your behavior accordingly. That you should expect him to respect the same boundaries he has for you. Ask him, just confirming, based on this interaction with this girl, and don’t let him deny. He was the only man in the room, it’s now ok for you to flirt and kiss other men, even in front of him? Just checking? Then I won’t feel bad about flirting and not shutting down other men’s advances.
No, you need to GTFO. After she gets back on her meds and stops being a monster, she can look for someone new, but I see no reason for you to take any more of this abuse, and once you're safely out, you'll see this too.
I realize I didn’t specifically answer your question of what you can do to overcome.
Reach out to trusted family or friends for emotional support. If you think he could get violent if you leave- you need to research how to protect yourself and avoid it.
If you want to try to salvage a relationship with him- go to a couple’s therapist with him. If he won’t agree to do this you need to take steps to leave this relationship. Me personally- I would not warn him I was doing this. You want all your plans in place so he can’t sabotage them.
Make sure you have access to funds. Consult a good divorce attorney. Then tell him you want a divorce.
I don’t understand the issue. If you don’t want to respond, then don’t. It’s no more complicated than that.
I don’t think he’s going to be involved or at least constantly
Tell Dr Mengele you think it would be irresponsible of you to breed with someone as stupid and ill-mannered as him.
Very true. Let’s just say if you’re a grown man around my partner’s baby sister (teenager) don’t hit on her or you risk my queen’s wrath and it’s not pretty. No no. Learned that last year on Valentine’s Day with a surprise gone wrong (her bestie’s cousin delivered her presents and was waiting for her with her sister while shooting a vid of it for me and let’s just say next time he’ll make sure baby sister goes inside next time).
Usually hookups are the best.. emotionless and very hot core!
What was your best sex?
If she is comfortable doing that to a man, they know each other. Women don’t go around air kissing strange men. He saw it and is lying. Does he go to the gym alone?
I would let this go for now since there is no other context. However it a good time to Have a discussion about boundaries. Tell him, it looks like there is a disparity in your definition of boundaries. If so then ask him if in a situation that just happened should you not be upset? The fact that she did it in front of you is brash. Is this a boundary for you but not for him? If so the. You need to get a better understanding of his definition of boundaries and change your behavior accordingly. That you should expect him to respect the same boundaries he has for you. Ask him, just confirming, based on this interaction with this girl, and don’t let him deny. He was the only man in the room, it’s now ok for you to flirt and kiss other men, even in front of him? Just checking? Then I won’t feel bad about flirting and not shutting down other men’s advances.
GF NEEDS to get back on her … medication[s]
No, you need to GTFO. After she gets back on her meds and stops being a monster, she can look for someone new, but I see no reason for you to take any more of this abuse, and once you're safely out, you'll see this too.
Friends don't put their dicks in friends sisters.
OP don’t do this. Horrible idea.
I realize I didn’t specifically answer your question of what you can do to overcome.
Reach out to trusted family or friends for emotional support. If you think he could get violent if you leave- you need to research how to protect yourself and avoid it.
If you want to try to salvage a relationship with him- go to a couple’s therapist with him. If he won’t agree to do this you need to take steps to leave this relationship. Me personally- I would not warn him I was doing this. You want all your plans in place so he can’t sabotage them.
Make sure you have access to funds. Consult a good divorce attorney. Then tell him you want a divorce.