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Date: October 17, 2022
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Like I told the other person. 50 skirts? You'd think I was a cross dresser. But 50 Hoodies!? You would think that was my fucking kill count and beat it lol
Is that what she’s referring to??? The fucking harmonica thing through me off, like what “baby” is jamming out with a 30yr guitarist? So I figured it must be her ex she’s talking about lol Jesus this story.
this is why you dont help people cheat. cheaters are bad people.
You have to break up. You will have to coparent with your ex, but you do not want a polygamous relationship and he does not want a monogamous one and should have been honest before you got pregnant.
Break up before he sleeps with someone else. Everything will change and it's a bad time now, but you have a lot to work out and it won't be easier with a newborn.
“I just want the best for him and I feel like I can make suggestions on how he can do things better,” is a sentiment that one typically has towards one’s child, not one’s partner. You can still want the best for him, but you need to understand that a) what you think is best might not be what he thinks is best, and b) even if your way IS the best way, it’s still not actually necessary for you to try and get him to follow your opinion. People are allowed to do things badly, they’re allowed to wear clothes they like that make them look not great, they’re allowed to not always take the best care of themselves. Part of learning to live with someone else is accepting that they don’t always want our help.
From the examples you described, there seem to be two separate types of issues where criticism is perceived; issues where he’s actually getting something wrong that affects you, and issues where you just think he should be doing things differently/better. You need to learn to recognise the former, and let go of the latter.
For instance, the shirts – that’s the former. They’re you’re clothes and you don’t want them ruined. So get a separate hamper for your clothes or for delicates, and separate your laundry so the mistake doesn’t happen again. Same with the light on his phone when you’re trying to sleep – if it genuinely keeps you up, it’s totally reasonable for you to ask him to be in another room until he goes to sleep. Because these are YOU things – your clothes, your sleep – you have the right to say hey, I’d actually like to do things differently because how it’s being done now is negatively affecting me.
But his clothes? Not your business. I know you mean it playfully/helpfully, but nobody likes to hear that their clothes make them look old and unfashionable and that they’d be a better version of themselves if they changed in the ways you want them to. His sleep hygiene is only your business to the extent it affects you and keeps you up – if he wants to keep bad habits and then feel exhausted, then honestly, you just have to let him. It’s his mistake to make, and if he really wants to change he will without your insistence.
As for the parenting books, many people who are actually parents struggle to apply to the letter the things they hypothetically learn from books or parenting resources. Practice is often different to theory; having someone hovering around telling you “Don’t say that, the book said XYZ!” is a guaranteed route to madness, especially if you’re actually dealing with a real life kid. If he does something in the moment you don’t agree with, let it go unless someone is actually at risk of physical or emotional harm. You can always bring it up later, if it’s THAT important. But I doubt that it is; I think it’s more likely that you’ve found something that you think is the “right” way to treat kids and you get annoyed when he doesn’t follow it, even if his alternative is actually just fine. I’d also suggest that you approach these discussions – and any other suggestions you might want to make – from a place of curiosity rather than helpfulness or improvement.
Also as a parent myself, can I give you (ironically) some unsolicited advice? Good enough is good enough. Not everything you do, or that your kids do, has to be perfect or even the best possible option. I grew up with parents who always wanted to find the best way to do things, for themselves and for us. And while that can sometimes bring benefits, it’s also an exhausting way for a kid to grow up. Kids need permission to do things badly and lazily; they need to know they can be crappy at something and still do it, that sometimes we make mistakes or take the path of least resistance and that it’s not some kind of disaster if they do. Safe adults are the ones who accept children exactly as they are, without suggestions for improvement or corrections of perceived shortcomings. That doesn’t mean you should never give them advice, but it should not be your default response (and right now it really seems like it is).
Also if you’ve never sought professional help to process some of your childhood experiences I really suggest you do so. If nothing else, having a child will almost certainly bring to light the ways you were let down as a kid and I imagine you will need help to deal with this.
No, it's totally fine. I believe Toby might have a thing for me. She's extremely clingy and is just quite immature. That's why I'd never date her. She also said something along the lines of choosing her Mom over her. I thought she meant I jeapordized the friendship but now I feel like she thinks we should be a thing and doesn't wanna see me with her mom.
I even questioned Talia about whether or not she thinks Toby might be jealous of her, and she remained silent.
So, she's just being jealous and is trying to ruin probably my best relationship ever.
Major ups and downs in a month……..???
The only time there should be yelling is when someone is in danger. “Get out of the house! There’s a fire.” “I don’t want to be in this room with you anymore, because of a tornado warning and we need to get to the basement.”