This. Without knowing how the conversation progresses from there, it’s difficult to assess what the problem is. What needs to happen is an honest conversation along the lines of:
“I’m not sure what you mean ‘what I’m going through’. If you mean physically what I’m going through with treatment, while I do have side effects, they don’t prevent me from wanting to have sex, being able to have sex and enjoying sex. What concerns do you have about us being intimate again?”
You just aren’t gonna know what the problem is until you push him to open up about it. He sounds supportive and it sounds like you are still physical with each other, but that he has some sort of issue with sex. It’s possible that he’s read that cancer patients can lose their sex drive and that partners have to be understanding about that or something.
You didn’t say what kind of cancer you have and so I don’t know if that’s playing into it at all. If there’s something about the type of cancer that’s affecting how he feels about it.
My husband has said this EXACT thing to me. I have opinions and I’ve learned you don’t have to silence your opinions to appease the other person. If he wants to end it over that, then good riddance to bad rubbish
I don't think he's interested in you, at least not as serious as you want him to be and you shouldn't have to tolerate behavior like this, like you said you don't deserve to be treated badly by anyone, he's not it, cut your loses and move on
Your the back up boyfriend used for food and rides and cash, she's getting her other needs from ex and others, know your worth and dump the b
This. Without knowing how the conversation progresses from there, it’s difficult to assess what the problem is. What needs to happen is an honest conversation along the lines of:
“I’m not sure what you mean ‘what I’m going through’. If you mean physically what I’m going through with treatment, while I do have side effects, they don’t prevent me from wanting to have sex, being able to have sex and enjoying sex. What concerns do you have about us being intimate again?”
You just aren’t gonna know what the problem is until you push him to open up about it. He sounds supportive and it sounds like you are still physical with each other, but that he has some sort of issue with sex. It’s possible that he’s read that cancer patients can lose their sex drive and that partners have to be understanding about that or something.
You didn’t say what kind of cancer you have and so I don’t know if that’s playing into it at all. If there’s something about the type of cancer that’s affecting how he feels about it.
My husband has said this EXACT thing to me. I have opinions and I’ve learned you don’t have to silence your opinions to appease the other person. If he wants to end it over that, then good riddance to bad rubbish
Yes, sugar dating is sex work. It's an exchange of goods and/or money for sex.
I don’t see any harm here
Your kid doesn’t know what your relationship is, he’s no more than just another friend as far as she knows
If this arrangement is working for you, why the hell not?
Tell your sister to mind her own business
That’s a sign it’s time to find a new girl
I don't think he's interested in you, at least not as serious as you want him to be and you shouldn't have to tolerate behavior like this, like you said you don't deserve to be treated badly by anyone, he's not it, cut your loses and move on