Such huge life decisions have to be done by you two together. A relationship is a teameffort. And it doesn't work like she behaves – just deciding for herself without talking to you about it. Talk to her about it. That you're not happy with LDR, and that you think you two are too young to already get married.
Why does it sound like you REALLY want to have a homophobic dad? ? like you're being told why the interaction was weird based on info, and you deny it.
My wife is pretty anti-fat because her father was overweight and died of a heart attack when she was 12. And now that my wife is pregnant, she is saying she does not want our child to have any relationship with my mom, unless my mom loses weight down to a BMI of 25 or less.
There is no plausible defense of your wife here. Your mother lost over 250 lb…if anyone knows what it takes to have a healthy relationship with food, its her.
Look you do have a problem and that problem is ‘why would you want to fix the realationship ?’ From what you tell us, you feel mocked and infantelized. That is a huge problem and needs to be stopped.
I used to date some girls like this. It’s tough because they can make you feel like you’re being really judgmental of their sensitivity or judging them based off a really bad day and everyone has bad days. But when you really think about it, would you ever react to even your worst day by giving up, crying, and throwing a tantrum? No, you wouldn’t. I don’t think this specific instance is break up worthy in itself but I would talk to her about it and keep an eye out.
Just put a boundary in place that you don't discuss politics.
You’re still not answering the question.
Was it with someone you were dating?
Such huge life decisions have to be done by you two together. A relationship is a teameffort. And it doesn't work like she behaves – just deciding for herself without talking to you about it. Talk to her about it. That you're not happy with LDR, and that you think you two are too young to already get married.
Why does it sound like you REALLY want to have a homophobic dad? ? like you're being told why the interaction was weird based on info, and you deny it.
My wife is pretty anti-fat because her father was overweight and died of a heart attack when she was 12. And now that my wife is pregnant, she is saying she does not want our child to have any relationship with my mom, unless my mom loses weight down to a BMI of 25 or less.
There is no plausible defense of your wife here. Your mother lost over 250 lb…if anyone knows what it takes to have a healthy relationship with food, its her.
Hmm interesting.Should it be something you avoid ?
Look you do have a problem and that problem is ‘why would you want to fix the realationship ?’ From what you tell us, you feel mocked and infantelized. That is a huge problem and needs to be stopped.
Lame comparison. The simple rule is if you really like small dicks then orgasm with a 4inch dido! Otherwise leave me n my home.
I used to date some girls like this. It’s tough because they can make you feel like you’re being really judgmental of their sensitivity or judging them based off a really bad day and everyone has bad days. But when you really think about it, would you ever react to even your worst day by giving up, crying, and throwing a tantrum? No, you wouldn’t. I don’t think this specific instance is break up worthy in itself but I would talk to her about it and keep an eye out.