My guy please don’t be so naive leave before she breaks your heart a women wouldn’t entertain another man if they are in a relationship. Stop being blinded by love and read what on the wall. Actions speak louder than words
No it isn't, where does it say that? Gaslighting is a manipulative tactic in which a person, to gain power and control of another individual, plants seeds of uncertainty in another person's mind. The self-doubt and constant questioning slowly cause the individual to question their reality. It doesn't have to be a long term thing.
No actually I’m going from the friends. I know that her with Muslim men. So it’s really I do know the belief system of the countries that you’re speaking of but it’s really my personal interaction and I have like three or four friends that are dating and one that’s married to a Muslim man, so this comes from personal experience.
Take better care of yourself. A consequence of you not taking care of yourself is you collapsing. A consequence of his personality is him taking away your right to choose and chaining you up. You made a poor choice, he committed a crime. What he did is not legal. You just ran yourself into the ground. You are not a child, presumably. You deserve better. You will probably need therapy to help you think more deeply about the decisions you make. Removing your ability to make decisions for yourself is a deeply scary thing for him to have done.
I believe it comes from insecurity. I had a boyfriend do this to me. I just looked at him and asked him what he wanted my response to be, did he want me to be jealous? Did he want me to go beat her up? What?
It puts it back on them, as in 'you are telling me why???'
He never did it again and he didn't really have an answer as to why he said that.
I can understand where you're coming from. Neither of you are in the wrong here, she had the right to see others and you have the right to view it as a incompatible sign. For me, I can only see one person at a time and I'd want someone who does the(I'm just immediately turned off if they see multiple. Nothing wrong on their part, it's entirely my personal preference and relationship views)
In this case its really asking yourself if this was a deal breaker. Its early on so you can go either way. Talk it out with her calmly explaining your feelings and seeing where it leaves you. Don't be scared to mention it might be a sign you have conflicting views. That's OK!
I guess idiots are born everyday I be dam to stay with someone who is cheating and still is willing to hang out with him especially after texting him” I think my husband’s found out” the fuck is wrong with you but hey I guess reddit shows off the amount of doormats in this world. Grow some self respect Jfc you don’t have kids and she doesn’t care to stop but hey you are hell bent on staying you even let this man sleep in your own dam house
He has to deal with you being another human, with your own sex drive and feelings and stuff. You matter, what you feel matters, and you are entitled in a relationship to say no to requests like this.
Both people in a sexual relationship have to be totally okay with the things they'll do or not do them.
If you feel uncomfortable or like it is too much, he has to understand and not force you or threaten you or manipulate you into doing something you are not 100% sure you want to do. It is the bare minimum as a respectful partner.
Besides, giving oral everyday will be tiring, boring, and it will end up being not as good some days because you'll not be in the mood for it or he will get accustomed to it. This is also a door to make you do things you're not feeling like doing.
I kept my name bc my husband didn't care and I like my last name. He just wanted the kids to have his last name which I agreed to. Maybe make it clear the kids will just have his name?
bruh I was 13. If you're a grown ass man jacking off to female friends you need help.
My guy please don’t be so naive leave before she breaks your heart a women wouldn’t entertain another man if they are in a relationship. Stop being blinded by love and read what on the wall. Actions speak louder than words
No it isn't, where does it say that? Gaslighting is a manipulative tactic in which a person, to gain power and control of another individual, plants seeds of uncertainty in another person's mind. The self-doubt and constant questioning slowly cause the individual to question their reality. It doesn't have to be a long term thing.
No actually I’m going from the friends. I know that her with Muslim men. So it’s really I do know the belief system of the countries that you’re speaking of but it’s really my personal interaction and I have like three or four friends that are dating and one that’s married to a Muslim man, so this comes from personal experience.
Don't take away the responsibility from Ellie as well. She is as much of an adult and quite frankly, a horses ass.
Take better care of yourself. A consequence of you not taking care of yourself is you collapsing. A consequence of his personality is him taking away your right to choose and chaining you up. You made a poor choice, he committed a crime. What he did is not legal. You just ran yourself into the ground. You are not a child, presumably. You deserve better. You will probably need therapy to help you think more deeply about the decisions you make. Removing your ability to make decisions for yourself is a deeply scary thing for him to have done.
I believe it comes from insecurity. I had a boyfriend do this to me. I just looked at him and asked him what he wanted my response to be, did he want me to be jealous? Did he want me to go beat her up? What?
It puts it back on them, as in 'you are telling me why???'
He never did it again and he didn't really have an answer as to why he said that.
My money's on street luge. How much do one of those things set you back second-hand? About on par with a 5yo xbox?
I can understand where you're coming from. Neither of you are in the wrong here, she had the right to see others and you have the right to view it as a incompatible sign. For me, I can only see one person at a time and I'd want someone who does the(I'm just immediately turned off if they see multiple. Nothing wrong on their part, it's entirely my personal preference and relationship views)
In this case its really asking yourself if this was a deal breaker. Its early on so you can go either way. Talk it out with her calmly explaining your feelings and seeing where it leaves you. Don't be scared to mention it might be a sign you have conflicting views. That's OK!
I guess idiots are born everyday I be dam to stay with someone who is cheating and still is willing to hang out with him especially after texting him” I think my husband’s found out” the fuck is wrong with you but hey I guess reddit shows off the amount of doormats in this world. Grow some self respect Jfc you don’t have kids and she doesn’t care to stop but hey you are hell bent on staying you even let this man sleep in your own dam house
He has to deal with you being another human, with your own sex drive and feelings and stuff. You matter, what you feel matters, and you are entitled in a relationship to say no to requests like this.
Both people in a sexual relationship have to be totally okay with the things they'll do or not do them.
If you feel uncomfortable or like it is too much, he has to understand and not force you or threaten you or manipulate you into doing something you are not 100% sure you want to do. It is the bare minimum as a respectful partner.
Besides, giving oral everyday will be tiring, boring, and it will end up being not as good some days because you'll not be in the mood for it or he will get accustomed to it. This is also a door to make you do things you're not feeling like doing.
I kept my name bc my husband didn't care and I like my last name. He just wanted the kids to have his last name which I agreed to. Maybe make it clear the kids will just have his name?