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I filed multiple complaints about a dude that I KNEW was into CP and showed police texts in which he sexualized a 7 year old. They responded that he was only doing it to provoke me and accused ME of trying to make trouble
Anyway a decade later his best friend was arrested on 6 counts of CP and is now looking at prison time
If y'all have found a town where cops actually listen instead of supporting fuckery and trying to up their r@pe numbers, lmk. Otherwise please stop giving OP a naked time. She had zero evidence and im.here to tell you that some cops don't care even when you have evidence
A little while ago you made a post about how it’s difficult for you to feel sympathy for your friend who has BPD, and AVPD+BPD really isn’t a gredt combo in a relationship. You also admit that you don’t think she appreciates you enough, but she could also never BE able to appreciate you enough. Even if she hadn’t turned you down, this relationship would be a bad idea. I think you should move on from the idea of being with her romantically and either keep focusing on your mental health (especially with regards to the “you could never please me enough anyway” thing because that mindset will probably destroy any relationship you get into) or peruse some dating apps and start trying to find common ground with other women
Block this loser and move on. If he feels like he needs to reach out let him know you're one more message from messaging his fiancé everything. Don't fucking bluff anymore, life isn't a fucking game. If your fiancé was doing this I'd hope someone would have the balls to come forward and tell me I was making a huge mistake.
Block this loser and move on. If he feels like he needs to reach out let him know you're one more message from messaging his fiancé everything. Don't fucking bluff anymore, life isn't a fucking game. If your fiancé was doing this I'd hope someone would have the balls to come forward and tell me I was making a huge mistake.
That’s not how emotions work. Like, at all. Getting into a new relationship isn’t a reset button that erases your past relationships. You can be over a past relationship and ready to move forward with someone new and still be blindsided by unresolved issues from the past relationship years later.
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This means that ditzy bitch knows all about the girlfriend and has Avery low moral compass
I filed multiple complaints about a dude that I KNEW was into CP and showed police texts in which he sexualized a 7 year old. They responded that he was only doing it to provoke me and accused ME of trying to make trouble
Anyway a decade later his best friend was arrested on 6 counts of CP and is now looking at prison time
If y'all have found a town where cops actually listen instead of supporting fuckery and trying to up their r@pe numbers, lmk. Otherwise please stop giving OP a naked time. She had zero evidence and im.here to tell you that some cops don't care even when you have evidence
A little while ago you made a post about how it’s difficult for you to feel sympathy for your friend who has BPD, and AVPD+BPD really isn’t a gredt combo in a relationship. You also admit that you don’t think she appreciates you enough, but she could also never BE able to appreciate you enough. Even if she hadn’t turned you down, this relationship would be a bad idea. I think you should move on from the idea of being with her romantically and either keep focusing on your mental health (especially with regards to the “you could never please me enough anyway” thing because that mindset will probably destroy any relationship you get into) or peruse some dating apps and start trying to find common ground with other women
If he did it with you, he'll do it to you.
Block this loser and move on. If he feels like he needs to reach out let him know you're one more message from messaging his fiancé everything. Don't fucking bluff anymore, life isn't a fucking game. If your fiancé was doing this I'd hope someone would have the balls to come forward and tell me I was making a huge mistake.
The ball is in your court.
If he did it with you, he'll do it to you.
Block this loser and move on. If he feels like he needs to reach out let him know you're one more message from messaging his fiancé everything. Don't fucking bluff anymore, life isn't a fucking game. If your fiancé was doing this I'd hope someone would have the balls to come forward and tell me I was making a huge mistake.
The ball is in your court.
He's also insane.
No, it's not true. I was just frustrated and used it to lash out at her.
He has free will, he gets to decide for himself.
You shouldn’t be scared to lose someone who MAKES FUN OF YOU every chance he gets. He’s not healthy or normal – he sounds jealous and petty. Dump him.
This sounds like something a sugar baby would do…
That’s not how emotions work. Like, at all. Getting into a new relationship isn’t a reset button that erases your past relationships. You can be over a past relationship and ready to move forward with someone new and still be blindsided by unresolved issues from the past relationship years later.
Tbh I am thankful I got in this subreddit to make sure no women puts me through this I rather be alone than miserable
Here’s the first thing you do
Get the hell away from that man. That’s borderline psychotic behavior. The absolute lack of empathy for a woman who lost YOUR CHILD.
My stomach genuinely hurts now and I pray you see this when the fog clears.
I am so so so sorry for the lost of your precious child. I wish you all the best in healing both mentally and physically.
Bye BF!!!
You have so much time to find someone who is actually worth your time. Those games he's playing get old quick.