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Date: October 17, 2022
It’s simple get divorced. What other options are left. She cheated the marriage is over. Move on with your life.
Not everyone is meant to live together. Being in a LDR you didn’t know him well enough but now that you do stop wasting your time.
I suspect his wife would not be pleased about this.
You sure your girlfriend just doesn’t want you there?
To me, it sounded like OP's home country isn't part of the EU either.
I know you said you wanted to drop it but just in case this thought comes up in your mind again I want you to remember that the friend knows he did something wrong because normally cheating involves some sort of deception of the person being cheated on so anything your boyfriend says would just go in one ear and out the other
Well you made two negative sweeping generalizations, so yeah, pretty sexist ?
If the connection feels right then give the relationship a chance. I’ve been in a similar situation – the relationship had a clear 6 month expiry date because I was relocating to another continent, but the connection was really strong so I figured I’d just see how it went. It was 100% worth it, we’ve now settled in the same city together and we’re getting married this year
Being pregnant drastically increases your risk of being seriously injured or killed by an intimate partner. Him acquiring weapons does as well. This is not a game or a joke. You need to get help, make a plan, and get out.
Thank you for your reply.
I'm very bad about thinking about things in black and white but have been trying to work on that. I think me saying “it really was me” was probably from me being negative towards myself, which is something that's gotten much worse recently. I've been trying to rationalise it by thinking of it as him not being able to articulate it or him not knowing why he didnt comfort me (since he started therapy recently) but I do need to get better about not seeing it as such a black and white situation.
You're right that it would probably be beneficial for me to talk to him about my own period of isolation. I will note, I've been open about everything else (depression, traumatic events, my own diagnoses, etc.) just not that particular time period. I would like to talk to him about it but there's a couple of reasons why I've hesitated. The three biggest ones would be:
1) I was severely suicidal during this time period and he lost one of his best friends a little more than 3 years ago to suicide. I'm worried that I'll bring up memories of his friend or hurt him by telling him I thought it was better to be by myself rather than reach out to anyone.
2) It's honestly still very hot for me to take my own mental struggles seriously and talking about that period and how i felt/ what i went through always feels silly.
3) I feel bad telling him cause I know he's going through a lot right now and I don't want to stress him out any more than he already is.
I agree that a lot of this is just communication issues between the two of us. I've been trying to encourage communication by thanking him whenever he opens up and telling him that I'm grateful that whenever he feels comfortable to share stuff with me. Sometimes it seems like progress is being made and then other times not so much but, I guess that's normal? Two steps forwards, one step back kinda?