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IM NEW– my 1st time on Cam. Send TOKENS, Please so I can learn how this site Works !
Date: October 17, 2022
IM NEW– my 1st time on Cam. Send TOKENS, Please so I can learn how this site Works !
What if her schedule or mood doesn't allow at all? Man, everyone here is telling you that you are wrong. If you counter reliable studies with boohooo “gender studies majors love spouting this” it speaks a lot about how unwilling you are to acknowledge that you have made a mistake.
The age gap is odd. The fact that he doesn't have money is concerning because many people who have a decent job will have built up savings by then. It makes an outsider wonder what has happened in his life that he lacks money and why he is not dating someone in his peer group.
Here are some tings to consider: Does he tell you that he knows more than you do or that he should decide things ? Does he ever undermine your achievements, suggest that he is the best person you could ever get, fail to follow through on promises? Does he stare at other young women or give an indication that his type includes being young? These should worry you.
Alternatively, do you and he have shared values, core beliefs, and enough shared life experiences to understand each other? Have you had opportunities to see how he treats people when he doesn't know you are observing and isn't trying to impress you? These would be good things.
You are old enough to look at the situation and make decisions. If you were 18, it would be more straightforward- run away!, but make sure that you have a solid sense of your own worth. That will help you look at your situation more objectively.
It's not the 10th drink that gets you, it's the first. She probably doesn't believe she can fall back down the alcohol hole.
Must suck to be dating someone with a pre teen mentality
I do talk with her and have been talking more lately per our conversation. It's hard for me to come up with shit to talk about. Like I said my life's pretty boring and most of our days consist of being locked in my room to avoid my drunken father who blasts music
. I just want a strait answer. Are we or are we not. I'm perfectly fine with not. But don't tell me we aren't and then go back on that almost right away. And when I inquired on that I was told that I was incorrect for thinking that was off the table. But that's what she said.
This is your life not hers go and live! it she chose her life she cannot live! hers and yours also.
I've never had a hobby that i need my partner to be involved with. Imma do it anyway.
I noticed that too, i died
I’ve been in your gf’s shoes! (Except the kid part.)
The hardest thing about getting in the habit of going to the gym is forming the habit. To start, she should just go to the gym. Doesn’t need to work out – just form the habit of getting up and going to the place. Walk around the floor. Maybe make a plan for what exercises she wants to do, but don’t even plan on working out the first few days/week. Just get in the habit of getting up and getting herself to the gym.
Then start with one exercise a day. It could only be a 5-10 minute workout, but that’s something – something she can accomplish. Try a different exercise each day. It will really help her if you guide her – before y’all get there plan out together what she should try that day – bonus points if you get her set up and show her how to do the exercise. After a couple weeks of that she should have a repertoire of exercises she can pull from. Then she can start building up to a few/handful of exercises a day.
I know for me, I’m more likely to do an exercise if it’s fun/interesting. Elliptical gets boring. Never really liked the treadmill, but it’s something I knew how to do so it was one of my defaults. Pushing a sled? That’s fun. That gives me a feeling of accomplishment!
The thing that often happens is people dive right into the gym full force, get overwhelmed, and never want to go back. If you can get past the overwhelming/scary part of it, the working out part is easy.
Yeah. Let me just say this, bro: my ex did the exact same things. Let me guess here:
You tried to de-escalate and she told you that you were condescending and turned it into a giant argument that you couldn’t escape from.
Then she wanted you to apologize for her manic bullshit and here you are now.