Easy answer; walk away. Lots of red flags with that attitude.
Very hot answer; talk to him and explain to him that his “opinion” of what it is to be a woman is … misinformed. If he is interested in learning to be a life partner then great! If he needs a submissive female instead of a partner; see the easy answer above.
Be thankful your wife likes sex because a lot of women lie about that. It boggles my mind that men don't get this. A friend married a virgin then broke up with her because the sex sucked. What are you men thinking? Do you want sex or some innocent virgin? I think its time you decided.
Would you rather be married to a woman who lied about her body count or lied about how much sex she wanted?
Yeah I think that he’s trying to bait me too! He’s not come to collect his things which he knows are outside for the world to see. He’s also planning on coming to see me?! And telling his friends we’re still friendly implies that he wants us to get back together….?
If you want to spend the day with him on his birthday, then do so and tell her she can have a day with the kids if she makes a big fuss about the kids not seeing him. And then think about how you want to proceed from there. The truth is, you ARE being reacquainted with someone you don't really know anymore (who had been living a drastically different life for 11 years), so erring on the side of caution when it comes to your kids is not bad advice, but that doesn't mean YOU can't spend time with your dad getting to know him again and seeing if he's still the same dad you loved, and then you can gradually start incorporating him into your family.
If she knew when she married you that he was a part of your life before and will be again, and was in jail, she doesn't really have a leg to stand on.
He didn’t say supermodel, he said she modeled in her 20’s. That could have been for anything a moderately pretty girl with the right body type…grocery store flyers, local department store fashion shows, not necessarily Vogue magazine or a catwalk in Paris.
True but sleeping with all of them and then having your bf hanging out like a chump without knowing about it isn't nice behavior toward the person you love.
He left it there. His fault. You didn't need to compensate him IMO but it was probably the right choice. You took the high road.
Easy answer; walk away. Lots of red flags with that attitude.
Very hot answer; talk to him and explain to him that his “opinion” of what it is to be a woman is … misinformed. If he is interested in learning to be a life partner then great! If he needs a submissive female instead of a partner; see the easy answer above.
One of you is lying lol
Yes it is possible
Be thankful your wife likes sex because a lot of women lie about that. It boggles my mind that men don't get this. A friend married a virgin then broke up with her because the sex sucked. What are you men thinking? Do you want sex or some innocent virgin? I think its time you decided.
Would you rather be married to a woman who lied about her body count or lied about how much sex she wanted?
Yeah I think that he’s trying to bait me too! He’s not come to collect his things which he knows are outside for the world to see. He’s also planning on coming to see me?! And telling his friends we’re still friendly implies that he wants us to get back together….?
Did she marry you knowing he was in jail?
If you want to spend the day with him on his birthday, then do so and tell her she can have a day with the kids if she makes a big fuss about the kids not seeing him. And then think about how you want to proceed from there. The truth is, you ARE being reacquainted with someone you don't really know anymore (who had been living a drastically different life for 11 years), so erring on the side of caution when it comes to your kids is not bad advice, but that doesn't mean YOU can't spend time with your dad getting to know him again and seeing if he's still the same dad you loved, and then you can gradually start incorporating him into your family.
If she knew when she married you that he was a part of your life before and will be again, and was in jail, she doesn't really have a leg to stand on.
He didn’t say supermodel, he said she modeled in her 20’s. That could have been for anything a moderately pretty girl with the right body type…grocery store flyers, local department store fashion shows, not necessarily Vogue magazine or a catwalk in Paris.
True but sleeping with all of them and then having your bf hanging out like a chump without knowing about it isn't nice behavior toward the person you love.
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