they've been shitty parents for years trying to undo all their damage in 1 week. Meanwhile the kid learned “i only have to continue to be shitty for one week before they get tired and give me what i want”
Please reread your last two paragraphs. They anchor your whole post and yet, instead of asking questions about ways to tunnel in toward better communication, you jump to the “solution” of an open relationship. If that is your mindset as a goto fix for the problems you two are having, then you have other far more significant problems in your relationship.
My friend's husband is on the spectrum, so is her brother. Two out of four kids are also (one is level 2 at least). I've been close with her family since I was a child and have learned a lot from her.
In my own experience, not related to her, I've know at least four or five people where it was known they were on the spectrum. They were all kind people who showed it in varying ways, despite some jarring moments at first.
In one person, her empathy was off the charts and it got her into a few unfortunate situations.
He’s easily manipulated by his mother. You’re supporting him. He’s not marriage material. Accept that and move on. You make whatever choice is best for you regarding the baby. Don’t make a choice thinking he will marry you. He’s never going to marry you which is actually for the best. As I said, he’s not marriage material. Have higher standards for whomever you date in the future.
This is a symptom of a bigger problem, she doesn't think she can do wrong, so she will happily break any boundaries you have and she will honestly think she did nothing wrong, but its not that she did anything wrong, its that your feelings arn't even on her radar. A good partner would stop for a sec before they do anything, say yeh i'm doing nothing wrong, but how would my partner feel about this, or what if the roles were reversed how would I feel, thats all it takes, a second of empathy to think about how the other person might feel, and you will never going to get that with this girl sorry bro, lay it out like this to her when you break up, because when you break up, again it's nothing she has done wrong and it's all your fault, and she will tell all her friends she did nothing wrong and you were the problem.
He's over that stage of his life.
When serious financial talks come into play, is when you should talk about this.
Like, if and when you two decide to join accounts/move in/marriage.
they've been shitty parents for years trying to undo all their damage in 1 week. Meanwhile the kid learned “i only have to continue to be shitty for one week before they get tired and give me what i want”
Buy toilet paper which dissolves
Also it's about ensuring female agency.
Seeing as I'm a woman in my 50's, and an ex-nurse, I can assure you that I know a damn sight more about 'female agency' – and healthcare – than most.
And those stats are drawn from my local government health site.
Please reread your last two paragraphs. They anchor your whole post and yet, instead of asking questions about ways to tunnel in toward better communication, you jump to the “solution” of an open relationship. If that is your mindset as a goto fix for the problems you two are having, then you have other far more significant problems in your relationship.
My friend's husband is on the spectrum, so is her brother. Two out of four kids are also (one is level 2 at least). I've been close with her family since I was a child and have learned a lot from her.
In my own experience, not related to her, I've know at least four or five people where it was known they were on the spectrum. They were all kind people who showed it in varying ways, despite some jarring moments at first.
In one person, her empathy was off the charts and it got her into a few unfortunate situations.
He’s easily manipulated by his mother. You’re supporting him. He’s not marriage material. Accept that and move on. You make whatever choice is best for you regarding the baby. Don’t make a choice thinking he will marry you. He’s never going to marry you which is actually for the best. As I said, he’s not marriage material. Have higher standards for whomever you date in the future.
He's being manipulative when he cries. Girlll if he really cared he would not be screwing other chicks, he's keeping you around as a bang maid..
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This is a symptom of a bigger problem, she doesn't think she can do wrong, so she will happily break any boundaries you have and she will honestly think she did nothing wrong, but its not that she did anything wrong, its that your feelings arn't even on her radar. A good partner would stop for a sec before they do anything, say yeh i'm doing nothing wrong, but how would my partner feel about this, or what if the roles were reversed how would I feel, thats all it takes, a second of empathy to think about how the other person might feel, and you will never going to get that with this girl sorry bro, lay it out like this to her when you break up, because when you break up, again it's nothing she has done wrong and it's all your fault, and she will tell all her friends she did nothing wrong and you were the problem.