You are hurt because what he did was extremely hurtful. Humiliating your partner is never an acceptable response, even if you think they are laughing at you. He needs to seek anger management counseling because the way that interaction should have gone was:
Him: “hey, are you laughing at my fall? That sucks.” You: “What, no? I was going to ask why the bag is ripped. You fell? Are you ok?” Him: “oh okay. Yeah, I tripped coming up the stairs and banged my knee. The bag ripped too. I'm ok, but could you go grab a new bag?” You: “yikes, I'm sorry, that's a bummer. I'll go grab the bag now.”
Done weeks before y’all started dating but he’s supposedly not friends anymore with the “people” who helped him come up with these ideas. I think he’s the only author of this.
You have decide how this makes you feel. And if you want to confide this relationship.
I’m with your husband on this 100%. The bad boy rep doesn’t apply here. If someone slapped me my husband would be doing the same thing and he is so far from a bad boy rep. He probably is afraid if you go back to your home country that they won’t let you leave. If he goes he maybe attacked by a group of your family. You married your husband and so he comes first. Just like you come first to him. If you want your family in your life then they need to be willing to compromise. Could you meet them in a neutral location? Somewhere like a vacation together. Where you could each go back to separate hotel rooms if needed. Meet in public places.
Thanks friend, I appreciate that. Unfortunately I’ve thought about that already and tried to change but I can’t, on Friday mornings we even have a tutorial together where it’s literally just me and her. Most awkward shit ever, I dread every Friday morning. It’s just so weird because we went from being total strangers for 2 years, to being extremely close and making out, to going back to being strangers again.
Someone has to get outta the bed.
You are hurt because what he did was extremely hurtful. Humiliating your partner is never an acceptable response, even if you think they are laughing at you. He needs to seek anger management counseling because the way that interaction should have gone was:
Him: “hey, are you laughing at my fall? That sucks.” You: “What, no? I was going to ask why the bag is ripped. You fell? Are you ok?” Him: “oh okay. Yeah, I tripped coming up the stairs and banged my knee. The bag ripped too. I'm ok, but could you go grab a new bag?” You: “yikes, I'm sorry, that's a bummer. I'll go grab the bag now.”
DONE.
I’ve never experienced that, at least not to that scale. But I was hurt, but I also understand his side, and I will leave him alone
Why are you going?
Done weeks before y’all started dating but he’s supposedly not friends anymore with the “people” who helped him come up with these ideas. I think he’s the only author of this.
You have decide how this makes you feel. And if you want to confide this relationship.
I’m with your husband on this 100%. The bad boy rep doesn’t apply here. If someone slapped me my husband would be doing the same thing and he is so far from a bad boy rep. He probably is afraid if you go back to your home country that they won’t let you leave. If he goes he maybe attacked by a group of your family. You married your husband and so he comes first. Just like you come first to him. If you want your family in your life then they need to be willing to compromise. Could you meet them in a neutral location? Somewhere like a vacation together. Where you could each go back to separate hotel rooms if needed. Meet in public places.
I was being facetious. I absolutely do not believe this lol. Sorry. I should been more clear.
Thanks friend, I appreciate that. Unfortunately I’ve thought about that already and tried to change but I can’t, on Friday mornings we even have a tutorial together where it’s literally just me and her. Most awkward shit ever, I dread every Friday morning. It’s just so weird because we went from being total strangers for 2 years, to being extremely close and making out, to going back to being strangers again.